confused and need help!

Former Member

ok here's the sit.
i met this guy and we have been f*ck buddies for last 6 months and we have spent alot of time together durring the last six months. We have alot in common and the sex is fantastic
lately when I do go to his place I stay there for hours on end but when its time for me to go he doesnt want me to leave. In the beginning he was like I dont want a relationship just sex and the feeling was mutual. but now I have strong feelings for him. I never wanted to get that close with him and now it seems like all I do is try to push him away. I'm not sure how to approach this sit. so I sure could some advice. thanks ~Beck~

Former Member

Ive never been in this situation but it seems like u both cant cope with the fuck buddies thing because u realise u have a lot in common and get on.
If he seems like he doesnt want u to leave then i'd say he wants something more too.....but i could be wrong he may just want more sex

Former Member

Well it does seem like he has feelings for you too, because if he just wanted more sex he would have asked you to stay more often right at the beginning of your...relationship. It is difficult to know for sure though and the only thing you can do to really find out is talk about it. You have to accept that talking to him about this and admitting how you feel is bound to change your relationship with him one way or another, and that if he doesn't feel the same way then it may be time to find someone else. At the same time, if he does have strong feelings for you, maybe you should consider whether or not you are ready for a relationship with him? Certainly though there is only so long you can go on the way you are because your feelings for him will eventually effect the way you are around him etc. anyway, so it may be best to get it all out in the open.

Former Member

thank you I will talk to him about where were going