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cheating trouble

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hey peeps! im aving a bit of trouble wit my bf! ive bin in a relationship wit him 4 1 year n 3 months, we r rly close but he's cheated on me 5 times n dat included sleeping with his ex girlfriend! he sez he loves me n wants 2 b wit me n we r rly close but im rly scared h's goin 2 cheat on me again or even worse that he doesnt actually wana b wit me! plz can u guys give me sum advice n wot u fink is goin on wit him, (if dats possible) lol! thanx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds like he's stringing you along, as he knows he can get away with it - you've proved that 5 times already.
    To be brutally honest it seems like he's using you as insurance, always there when he needs you, in between his escapades.
    Why on earth are you putting up with it? You seem sad - you could be so much happier
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i am happy, he does make me happy but im jus v worried n scared dat im guna lose him!
    i love him n i kno he does love me but he listens 2 his friends a lot so if they tell him 2 do sumfing or if they're all doing it he'll do it! i kno him v well n i kno deep down he does love me n he does wanna b wit me n sumtimes i can get 2 dat part of him but once he's realised dat then he's fine n evryfings ok! it dont make sense i kno but i rly do love him! i jus wana know if he does love me n wana b wit me!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    iv'e been going out with my g/f 4 almost 2 years now, n not once have we cheated on each other, we refuse to listen to what our friends say because half the time its complete bullshit,truth is, if he loved u he wouldn't of cheated on you all of times b4 and he especially wouldnt listen to his friends, if ur in the realationship when 90% of it he's acting like a twat and fucking others, and then the other 10% he's a nice guy, then fuck it either get with someone else or do the dirty on him n see how he fucking likes it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    how can you put up with that? Knowing a partner has cheated once really hurts so after five times i cant imagine what it would be like.
    I dont mean to be hateful here but dont be so fucking stupid. He obviously doesnt love you. Love is when you would do anything for that person and never want to hurt them. So just dump him before he does it again. <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dump him - unless you really really LOVE him, then you should put a sign on your back saying "Wipe Feet Here"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How much will you love him when he gives you the clap!!!
    or somthing worst!
    Get shot of him fullstop
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