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Another boring Online/long distance-relationship moan

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey everyone, im new here and i've been reading a few boards for a while now and i thought i should write something!

Anyway, getting to the point, i met my g/f about a year ago online, we talked, txt and chatted on the phone for ages and ages every night, i also went away for a month in the summer and didnt talk to her for ages, we met up back in October and again in december, and i really really miss her! i crave to be with her every day, im planning to move down to be with her(shes 140 miles away) when i finish college, thats in 2 years time though, and i cant wait that long!

What should i do?

R

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    First of all welcome to the site.

    In response to your post, all I can say is - if you like her that much then you will wait because it will be worth it in the end!!

    Im in a long distance relationship and although I see my boyfriend at weekends, I'm going uni for 4years so I have to wait too. But I know that at the end it will be worth it.

    Good luck with what ever you decide to do.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hate to be pessimistic as well but even though u love her she will meet new people and life changes. but theres nothing from stopping u to keep seeing her.
    on weekends <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you both feel that strongly about each other then hold out on it. Try and meet up during the holidays/half terms or something, even the odd weekend. I have a long distance r/ship and after 2 years it's still difficult but we cope. I love my b/f to bits and we try to see each other as often as we can, but when we can't we just look forward to when we *can* see each other and spend time talking on the phone or txting or whatever. I know it's not the same but it kinda helps <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    If there's definitely something there between the two of you, neither of you will have to worry about the other one finding someone else or something, trust is very important in these r/ships.

    I think all I have left to say is keep communicating and plan some time when you can see each other and make it special <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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