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Boyfriend Blank

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Iv bin goin out wid my bf 4 a while but l8ley he has bin blankin me completly, walkin past me down the corridoor completly ignores me, he wont tlk 2 me 2 my face only on the internet and when i ask him if i have done something wrong he says no!!! i dunno what to do my m8s all say i shud get rid of him but i dont want to! wot shud i do????? <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    eurrrrrghhhhhhh that txt talk is the language of FOOLS! sounds like hes not interested, hes just acting like a pathetic little boy, stop letting him treat you like a human doormat ditch him and find someone who with treat you with a little r.e.s.p.e.c.t
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmm, doesn't sound too good to be honest. Maybe he's blankin u cos he doesn't like u that much anymore, but doesn't want to hurt u, which is why he won't tell you? or maybe he cheated on you and doesn't dare to face you? don't know, u gotta ask him. luv n hugs
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Awwwwwwwwww man!!!!!

    I thought this post was going to be something totally different!!

    Guess I will need to get my head out of the gutter <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

    The guy is obviously scared to admit that hes your boyfriend or whatever in front of his mates, which is a bit sad!!!. Either that or he a twat thats got tunnel vision and cant see shit.

    Get rid of the scum!!!!!!!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx Melissa, i rung him 2wice 2day but his fone just rung un rung, he isnt one to leave da house wid out his fone so i kno he must have heard it ring! i luv him 2 much to get rid of him but i just wanna kno if i have dun somefing wrong and why he isnt tlkin 2 me! <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gawd, which part of dont use text speak are you having trouble understanding? <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0">

    As for your 'bf', hes not worth the effort. Youd be better off single than with the invisible man, at least you could go out with someone else. Id get rid.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you HAD done something wrong, the mature thing to do would have been to tell you, right?
    Chances are, you haven't so don't go blaming yourself for this bloke being - generally - a bit of a dick.
    If you allow him to ignore you etc. and put up with it, he will continue to treat you like this.
    Like Melissa said, it's ultimatum time.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    iv tried askin him if id dun sumfing wrong but he dont answer me, itz al tho im invisable, he didnt answer his fone atall 2day when i rung him but like i said i like him 2 much 2 get rid of him!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sexy Becki:
    <STRONG> i like him 2 much 2 get rid of him!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"></STRONG>

    So you want to get used to be treated like shit?
    You will be treated the way you allow yourself to.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Sexy Becki:
    <STRONG>iv tried askin him if id dun sumfing wrong but he dont answer me, itz al tho im invisable, he didnt answer his fone atall 2day when i rung him but like i said i like him 2 much 2 get rid of him!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"></STRONG>

    lets make this even easier...

    DONT USE TEXT SPEAK, IT MAKES YOU LOOK LIKE A MORON AND ITS IMPOSSIBLE TO READ!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0">

    Its up to you to choose, but if hes not giving you the attention you deserve then you need to think seriously whether hes worth it or not. Dont be afraid of being single, if ur bf is always ignoring you, then you effectively are single anyway.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sounds like it could be his way of giving you the brush off. Just ask him straight out if this is the case. Good Luck
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