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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ive been dumped 4 a bloke by my best mate <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0"> ive been off skool ill 4 the past week and im to tired 2 go ne where so my mum said cos im not contagious or nefin my best mate cud come round 2moro. neway i asked her but she said she cant cos she's seein her b/f but the thing is shes seen him everyday as we all go 2 the same skool.

is it really 2 much 2 ask 4 my mate 2 spend some time with me and not her b.f cos she sees him everyday and i havent seen her all week? <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well if shes planned something already then she wont want to drop it for you...you wouldnt drop something for her, if it was very important/planned.

    But mates need to be careful, bf/gfs come and go, but friends are always there <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with Kermit. As it was already planned then u can't really be annoyed at her, its like if she had planned something with u & then cancelled it to do something else.

    If however, she starts to plan things with u, then cancel for him or if she hasn't seen u for several weeks but has seen him all the time (and not just at school as its very different meeting up with someone outside of school to inside school) then I think it would be time to get annoyed & say something!

    Also how long has she been with him? During the first month or so of a relationship u do want to spend a lot of time together. U just have to remember your mates as they are just as important, if not more so.

    Good luck anyway <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well my mate and i talked last nite and she told me she missed me not bein at skool and that her new b/f isnt givin her enough space which is why i didnt quite understand wen she said she'd rather go out wiv him.

    they hadnt actually planned nefin it was like a oh r we doing sumfin on sunday thing but nothing was actually aranged.

    they have only been 2gether a few weeks but they see each other outside skool as well as inside.
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