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Running a mile

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Right a made a decision to change mayself. I won't ring ppl if they don't ring me. Why should i do the running. And i won't send out b'day cards even to those turning 18, well don't blame me, i didn't get one did i?

Besides this, on the male front, i've decide to just bit my lip and go for it. See usually i do a runner. This is as soon as i find a nice bloke (yeah a few of you know i got him, and think he's gone) I think it was because i have braces... i think they're a put off. They do that for me anyway. Anyone else's thing on girls/blokes with braces? See ever since i've had them i've changed.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i know that two people with braces snogging is potentially hazardous...but really i think it shouldn't matter ALLLLL t hat much..maybe some guys find it a turn off, but the majority...who knows. i obvioulsy dont <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    not a lot to say kat. soz.

    If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This morning I crawled out of bed and realised I had been re-born lmfao. Im through with always helping my mates and putting myself out for them when only a few of them r willing to give it back.

    The few that treat me how I do them are the only ones worth having because the rest just take the piss and Ive finally come to my senses...its taken me far too long though!

    I cant handle being messed around and treated like crap by blokes anymore either. It isnt just bad luck thats meant I ended up with wankers for boyfriends...its because I let myself get treated like crap coz I never felt I deserved any better.

    Well Im not taking shit from them or giving everything for people when all they do is take the piss...I need to be happy and Im not gonna get anywhere while I let everyone trample on me and use me to their advantage.

    Sounds like u have woke up in a similar way as me this morning...I just hope Im bright enough to keep feeling this way because I really cant handle to feel worthless for muchj longer!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kat, youll have changed since you got your braces cos now you dont have the self-confidence, all you are is conscious of the braces. I dont mind em, theyre only temporary- just think of your teeth when theyre off! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    It matters not who won or lost, but how you place the blame.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think braces can be really nice.

    I'm sure i can't be the only one.

    Everything about you is how i want to be.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lolly, make sure you stick to it too. I alsways give in after a couple of days but im determined this time.
    And as for the rest of you, thankyou.... i hate em more than the world buttheres nothign i can do. A few months more and they'll be gone forever!See ive had them for ages and they've only just started bothering me"!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know they shouldn`t matter, but to me braces are a bit of a turn-off. Don`t ask why its just one of those weird things.
    Does that make me sound like a bad person?


    "Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Talyn:
    I know they shouldn`t matter, but to me braces are a bit of a turn-off. Don`t ask why its just one of those weird things.
    Does that make me sound like a bad person?

    Not at all! I think they're a turn off tooo. I am gonna say one thing, mine aren't even noticeable. I have a thing about teeth altogether, i don't like minging ones, so i guess if i can get do it now, it's worth it. Anyway mine are straight and all that it's just a tooth needs pulling downa nd hopefully, it won't be long!!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good for you Kat and Lolly!!

    If you feel like going back 2 being walked all over just come back and read this- cos its pretty convincing!

    Dont worry about your braces Kat, they'll be off soon, and the majority of lads wont even notice them. Just beleive in yourself and your own self worth and everyone else will do too.

    Good luck!!
    xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers and i'm not going to be walked over but im gonna do my bit too, if not i'd be totally selfish wouldn't i?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kat:
    Lolly, make sure you stick to it too. I alsways give in after a couple of days but im determined this time.
    And as for the rest of you, thankyou.... i hate em more than the world buttheres nothign i can do. A few months more and they'll be gone forever!See ive had them for ages and they've only just started bothering me"!

    Yea I always end up not sticking to it too...like Ive done again, wwwaaaaaahhhh!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lolly:
    Yea I always end up not sticking to it too...like Ive done again, wwwaaaaaahhhh!


    Ummm i kinda stuck to it. A mate who always cancels at last minute asked if i wanted to go cinema on sunday. i knew she wouldn't ring so iw ent shopping, she didn't ring!! then i rang her to see what she was up to and we were doign cinema today, ......she cancelled again and said she'd go later. i said NO!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ive told myself a million times i should be such a nice guy, that no one really appreciates me and that i shouldnt be so soft, and i try to change but i cant, im just too nice too (thats what my sisters say) so ive resigned myself to the fact that being nice does have some good points, i havent found them yet.

    I suppose if i got more "thank you"s that would be nice and maybe if i could find atleast one girl who likes niceguys

    P.S You know my opinions on braces Kat <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah i do thanks very much Niceguy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    Speak to you later anyway!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kat:
    Ummm i kinda stuck to it. A mate who always cancels at last minute asked if i wanted to go cinema on sunday. i knew she wouldn't ring so iw ent shopping, she didn't ring!! then i rang her to see what she was up to and we were doign cinema today, ......she cancelled again and said she'd go later. i said NO!!!


    Good for u, dont let mates treat u like that...tell them to fuck off lol!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lolly:

    Good for u, dont let mates treat u like that...tell them to fuck off lol!

    If i did, i'd have no-one.....says alot about my life.
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