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Not used to his size - help!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I've been seeing my current boyfriend for about 3 months now, and we've just started sleeping together.

The thing is, my last boyfriend, who I lost my virginity to was (I now know) very well endowed, whereas my current boyfriend is somewhat smaller, not small, but just smaller. But the thing that used to always get me off during sex was the pleasure/pain feeling of him being slightly too big for me. With my new boyfriend, I can barely feel a thing.

What I want to know is has anyone else had this happen, and will things improve? We've got a perfect relationship otherwise, and I don't want our sex life to be crap..

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Try different positions, like putting your legs over his shoulders, or try from behind. And try "sqeezing" your inner muscles! Hope that helps.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    missionary where you lift your hips up or wrap your legs around him will help for getting in deeper
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Weird the way girls talk about these things- (even on here)
    Makes ya think...

    Anyways- yeah said advise above will help.

    But never try to draw comparisons with other partners-
    Try doing something new with him you never done with your old boyfriend and enjoy sex for what it is!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    remind me again, size doesnt matter?:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    remind me again, size doesnt matter?:p

    who told you that!?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Char_Baby
    who told you that!?!

    His girlfriend.

    :p Sorry, crap joke.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by HunnyPot
    His girlfriend.

    :p Sorry, crap joke.

    no...good joke!! :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Try doing more pc exercise's...thus tightening your pussy (sorry couldnt think of another word) and making him feel bigger...Vwalla! problem solved!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    All I can advise are the things already mentioned. Try PC muscle excercies, try positions with your legs together, etc. One I find works well is legs over shoulders. Either one leg over each shoulder, or both legs over one shoulder, and work your PC muscle.

    And you girls say that size doesn't matter? :confused::(

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Char_Baby
    no...good joke!! :lol:

    Nah, it wasnt her:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Polyfilla.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mr_Wobble


    And you girls say that size doesn't matter? :confused::(

    Mr_Wobble ;)


    well, we have to give you some reassurance :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by freak
    well, we have to give you some reassurance :p
    I don't need reassuring, thank you! :naughty::p

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
    I don't need reassuring, thank you! :naughty::p

    Mr_Wobble ;)


    ooo someones cocky

    hehe:)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by freak
    ooo someones cocky

    You deserve to die for that pun:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    You deserve to die for that pun:p

    hmm..maybe next week.havent got time to die atm
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by freak
    ooo someones cocky
    Oh, that's soooo poor. You deserve to be spanked for that one! :naughty:

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe get him to grind it into you rather than stick it in and out of you. The friction will make his size irrelevant.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay
    Polyfilla.
    :lol: excellent
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