Flicking between 2!

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The problem I had a while ago was choosing between two guys.It was so annoying!I wish that one of them had disliked me, or I had disliked one of them!I went out with one and then dumped him for the other,which I know was not nice at all!Anyway the relationships both failed.The thing is I now still think about them both and still keep flicking between them.What is wrong with me?!They are both different and v. nice,yet one month I like one,then the other!I havnt even seen them for months!Anyway I have now pretty firmly decided which one I would go out with again if I ever have the chance,not that I am likely to.But I have fucked things up majorly with him!I probably shouldnt even be contemplating this,as I most likely dont deserve it,but anyway....How can I try and gain some respect from him again? <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">
I will probably end up bribing him with beer <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

[ 30-01-2002: Message edited by: Fairy ]

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don't go out with either of them.

Former Member

Men aren't light switches. You have to learn to teach us with respect.

The chances are if this lad has any sense he won't want to be with you again. Frankly I don't blame him, I know it sounds harsh and not the answer you "want" to hear, but in future you can't keep changing your mind.

You will have to put this one down to experience and learn to treat men with respect.

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Thanx, for the replies mingo and Whowhere.I think I will try and move on.I think the nicest thing I can do for them is to leave them aloneanyway.Im lucky I guess that he even says hello to me.