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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I'm out with this really nice boy he's not fit but he's really sweet but this other guy who i have fancyed for ages asked me out today he's funny really fit and very, very popular. what should i do?

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Squinty
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[ 29-01-2002: Message edited by: Squinty ]

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    is popularity all you care about?? this guy is probably gonna turn out to have such a shitty personality. go where your heart takes you but now where you are looking for a better image.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mingo, you need to sort yourself out. You're really starting to piss me off. You just asked what to get your "b/f" and now you're contemplating (thinking about in case u don't understand) dumping him for someone else.

    Walking a fine line.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RNT:
    <STRONG>People who cheat on others is one of my pet hates. Especially when they cheat on someone then start crying when their relationship goes down the pan.</STRONG>

    ME TOO
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Alistair:
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    ME TOO</STRONG>

    Me three.

    Decide which one of them you want, without test-driving them both. Then stick with your choice.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    quote:
    Originally posted by RNT:
    People who cheat on others is one of my pet hates. Especially when they cheat on someone then start crying when their relationship goes down the pan.

    Me Four
    but anyway, why has this bloke asked you out now, knowing so well that your in a relationship? that is really pathetic of him, asking out some other guys girlfriend and splitting them up because she wants someone more popular. stick with the old guy
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by The Ghost Of Kurt Cobain:
    You just asked what to get your "b/f" and now you're contemplating dumping him for someone else.
    [QB]

    well i discided to stick with my current b/friend because i saw the ture side of this other guy.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks guys
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me 5
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me 6. It looks like your only with this b/f until you get something better
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me 7.
    It's people like you that gives me a deep-rooted hatred for the entire human race.

    With the exception of about 10 people.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me 8
    Originally posted by beatnusoon:
    <STRONG>me 6. It looks like your only with this b/f until you get something better</STRONG>

    Thats what it looks like from here aswell
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by king of the k0p:
    me 8

    what are you counting for are you still learning how to count

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't knock others on this site. I have absolutely no doubt that there are people here who know more than you do, about pretty much anything you care to name. They will be better educated, more experienced, more widely read, travelled and generally more rounded people. Give them respect, eh?

    In all fairness, you have considerably annoyed a few people on this site. If you want serious help with your problems or questions, then insulting the regulars, discarding the guide to netiquette and generally being obsequious is a bad way to go about it.

    It's not for me to tell you what to do, nor to judge. I'm not a regular as such, I'm only a month or so on here. But it's a nice place. If you treat the regulars with according respect, then you will not find a nicer, and more helpful set of people. Anywhere. And I know some counsellors, who are not as good as these guys, ok?

    Take a breath, and try and stop inflaming and agitating people if you want help, maybe?

    As for your question; you have a boyfriend, and aren't sure about whether to go with another? This is a decision only you can make. I know that's not helpful advice. If you do want to switch boyfriends, then I advise a cooling period, so it's not blatantly obvious what you've done, to either party. I don't think that you can win this one - to be honest.

    Anyway, think on. If you chill out, you;ll be a valued member of the site....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by DJP:
    If you treat the regulars with according respect.

    i wasn't treatening them it's just they were all saying me 3,4,5,6,7 or 8 it's annoying when i need help with my boyfrieds. but thanks DJP i actully chose the current boyfriend because the other one was all mouth and no personality.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seems like everyone is in agreement on one level or another. <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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