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hey gorgeous,texting loads now its over!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
right this guy, that i had pulled twice b4, was at the pub on fri,as was i with friends - talk about perfect timing!!

i went to the bar and he was talking to me etc, being chatty then he asks for my mobile number, and tells me he is gonna text me that night and 2 be awake when he does

so at just after 12, i get a text message saying alright gorgeous, did Karen(my friend) tell u the same as she had told me?

this point i was scared, - i have a very gobby friend so i text back askin what it was
well to make a long story short, he was very flattering texting really quicky, if i was longer then like 3 mins 2 reply he was txting sayin did u get that message, and talked about meeting up, he ended all mesages with love him and txt back

net day i text him in the afternoon and dont hear from him till 10 and he was nice but noway whathe was like b4, i dont be the one who is running after him but dont know what 2 do, do u think he was drunk and made a mistake we kissed at the end of the pub night but it seems like it has all ended b4 it started, my friends were like he is drooling over u! at the time as well

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The exact same thing has happened to me. R u sure we havent pulled da same guy,Matt?! I met him B4 when I was goin out wiv his bestmate then he texted me the other day and we met up,he was reeeeally drunk and kissed me and he kept textin me all the time sayin that he really wants a relationship wiv me but now he's ignorin me and i just got a txt from him sayin that we need to talk seriously,I'm scared. I really like him. I reckon he's gonna dump me B4 its even started. Its horrible,ennit? I hate men.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ugh i got a txt at 20 to 12 last night saying did u have a good night last night?

    and that was it, coz i was off clubbin, its weird cause we have reversed the roles he was all like love me and ur so sexy, and my messages where blunt, now its the other way round!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe he thought that by your bluntness you thought he was coming on too strong?
    He probably thought that it might be better for everyone if he didn't rush into things and kept the texts to the same level of closeness that yours were.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Text messages are the worst way to try and pick up on what someone is thinking or feeling. The amount of times I have picked up girls the wrong way with texts is worrying examples, when they are trying to be funny and I think they are taking the piss then I go mental and they fall out with me. When girls(ex's) are wanting to be nice to me and I think they are taking the piss and then go mental at them, and the same has happened to them I am trying to be funny and nice and they take it the wrong way!!!

    You should talk to him as text messages are the worst way to express feelings, the guy told you that he really likes you maybe hes not that great at expressing himself using texts and thats why your getting confused.

    Talk to him, its the best way to get it sorted out and also straightened out.

    Goodluck whateve you decide to do though <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wow im happy!

    i sent him a bit of a rude pic text and said remember this when ur in amsterdam, (he is off soon) which i regreted after, but got 1 sayin how u know i was off 2 amsterdam, and when r u off out next?

    sent one bk sayin u told me u was saving, dont know when im going out hopefully soon

    answer back.....you want 2 see me again then?, it will prob be when i get back!

    god im happy!
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