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ex going out with my mate what should i do?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi all.
im sure some you have seen my other posts about me and my now x girlfriend but ive noticed shes been flirting with him and most nites there over stockly park (a huge park area with loads of bushes) just this day found that she is going out with and ive asked her if she is going out with him as a friend coz she wanted to be friends with me after dumping me (which she dumped me all for a big misunderstanding)im pretty sure im over it i think about it all the time but it doesnt hurt me i think! i found that they were going out via her sister who is a good friend of mine after what she has done to me.
any way im going skateing with the guy tomorrow and im wondering should i tell him i no and tell him its not worth it coz she will hurt him as much as she hurt me? or should i leave it and pretend i dont no?
any help would be great
thanx dudes!


  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    To be honest, I'd smack him in the face.

    That might just be me though, but me and mates have an understanding, you dont do each others ex's.

    Ya know, if you've been out with someone you're always going to have feelings for them, and to see them with your mate would be horrible for anyone.

    I'd try to talk to him, and explain that it's not worth losing a mate over a girl..I know, I've been there, and never again <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    I wouldn't keep it secret you know, because if you bottle it up, when it does come out it'll be nasty.

    Oh well, hope I helped.

    Phil <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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