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Torn between 2?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Ok i'll try and explain this in as short as I can,

I was seeing a girl bout 1year ago and we become great friends even after we split up. I then lost contact with her and I've been with my current g.friend fror the last 5months (going great)

Yesterday I recived a call from my ex and she is with another bloke but would like me to go around hers 2moro night and catch up while he's (her b.freind) at work.

Im still am attracted to her but I doubt she will come onto me which is what I want, but although i'm crazy about g.friend and dont wanna cheat on her I dont want to be put in the situation where I might do someit if she does come onto me!

PLEASE help !

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by novakovino:
    <STRONG>Ok i'll try and explain this in as short as I can,

    I was seeing a girl bout 1year ago and we become great friends even after we split up. I then lost contact with her and I've been with my current g.friend fror the last 5months (going great)

    Yesterday I recived a call from my ex and she is with another bloke but would like me to go around hers 2moro night and catch up while he's (her b.freind) at work.

    Im still am attracted to her but I doubt she will come onto me which is what I want, but although i'm crazy about g.friend and dont wanna cheat on her I dont want to be put in the situation where I might do someit if she does come onto me!

    PLEASE help !</STRONG>

    Your current relationship cant be that great if you would seriously consider cheating on her can it?
    The fact that you think it isn't a good sign. You should think long and hard, and maybe you suggest to your ex that you meet in a neutral place.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if you do cheat on your girlfriend, someone is going to get hurt one way or another, and if she finds out - all the trust goes out of the window - she would have to be VERY forgiving
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well then there is one simple explanation for this post just talk to your ex on the phone and catch up and don't bother going then it means no one at all gets hurt but if its that important to lose a g/f over then go on ahead!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Meet in a coffee shop or a pub or something, somewhere where its not likely youll wanna shag her. But if yiu dont trust yourself dont go at all, but if you dont trust yourself you really need to think why you dont., And why do you want her to make a move on you?

    Its not fair on either girl to mess them about, and even less fair to cheat on them.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you may cheat on her and she might take you back but it will never be the same after that. I know from experience that you can never trust some one after they cheat on you and that is the most hateful and hurtful thing in the world so make sure you think long and hard about what your doing before you meet your ex.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've decided to go around there with my g.friend, i confirmed this with my ex and she was ok about this.

    I've thought long and hard and I've decided my current g.friend is who I want and not worth losing, Thanks for all the advice given.
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