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I've been having some really bad problems and complications with my boyfriend and whole lifestyle situation really that have seriously been getting me down.
I've never felt so upset at any time in my life and for the past couple of weeks I've eaten barely anything. I really have tried but I just have that nervous sick feeling all the time. My family are worried about me because I've always been really slim as it is, but I've lost almost half a stone in the last week. I'm a size 6-8 but quite tall, about 5'7" so I hate looking too skinny, which I am beginning to look.
I'd be happy to drink that build-up shake or something but my mums really against this manufactured protein stuff. I'm vegetarian too which I guess makes the whole eating problem worse. I've always eaten loads and loads and snacked throughout the day on chocolate, cake, whatever, just been thankful for a fast metabolism, and now I'm eating barely anything I'm beginning to look ill.
Anyone got any ideas of how I can sort myself out and put on a bit of weight?
Thanks.
I've never felt so upset at any time in my life and for the past couple of weeks I've eaten barely anything. I really have tried but I just have that nervous sick feeling all the time. My family are worried about me because I've always been really slim as it is, but I've lost almost half a stone in the last week. I'm a size 6-8 but quite tall, about 5'7" so I hate looking too skinny, which I am beginning to look.
I'd be happy to drink that build-up shake or something but my mums really against this manufactured protein stuff. I'm vegetarian too which I guess makes the whole eating problem worse. I've always eaten loads and loads and snacked throughout the day on chocolate, cake, whatever, just been thankful for a fast metabolism, and now I'm eating barely anything I'm beginning to look ill.
Anyone got any ideas of how I can sort myself out and put on a bit of weight?
Thanks.
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Tom.
basically you're aware that the reason you're not eating is cause you're not feeling great at the moment, so the thing to do is to try and lift your mood, and then, in theory, your eating will return to normal. unfortuately this isn't as easy as it sounds.
in the meantime, try to snack as much as you can. i know the feeling when you have a whole meal in front of you and you just know you'll barely make a dent in it, let alone finish it. but try a few bits here, a few bits there. when i'm in that kind of mood, i find i can eat more if i'm distracted at the time - watching tv or reading. those protein shakes are a good idea. tell your mum that if it's going to make you feel/look better, she should put her objections aside. also try to eat protein rich or fatty things, cheese, eggs, to build you up, as well as carbs, like bread and pasta, to keep you going. the most important thing is to just keep trying. the longer you go without eating you'll find the harder it is to start again. and malnutrition can make depression far, far worse.
don't be embarrassed about going to see a doctor about this. at the very least they can advise you about your diet. if you wanted to, they could refer you for some counselling, or something to help you work through this.
i keep getting notions for things maybe im pregnant, nah, KIDDING!
anyway i know its hard but you got to do your best to eat. nobody can do wihout food diabetic or not! x
I've got better over the last week, have managed to eat some proper meals and just been trying to snack on loads of puddings!
Haven't managed to sort out any of the problems that have caused me to feel like this but I guess that might take some time.
kaffrin - thanks for the advice about the doctor. I need to go soon anyway about some other stuff so think i'll mention it then, they might be able to help.