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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hav u eva liked sum1 so much that if u c them 1 more time u feel like u will blow up but they dont feel the same way as uve prob guessed i hav this prob my m8s tell me 2 get over her but i cant she just wont give me a chance but if she got 2 know me i think she might like me its rippin me up i cant get her out of my head am i in luv

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i know what u mean - i felt the same about someone who wasnt interested in me, and it really tears u up inside - all i can recommend is a bottle of bacardi: to hit yourself over the head with <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
    dont worry man xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by darkmaster:
    <STRONG>hav u eva liked sum1 so much that if u c them 1 more time u feel like u will blow up but they dont feel the same way as uve prob guessed i hav this prob my m8s tell me 2 get over her but i cant she just wont give me a chance but if she got 2 know me i think she might like me its rippin me up i cant get her out of my head am i in luv</STRONG>

    It's usually called 'obsession' and is related to 'having a crush'. Don't let the terms fool you, because its a serious matter to those affected - just look at how you feel for example.

    Trouble is, she doesn't want to know. That's not about not knowing you, that's just life. Man, I really fancy Kylie Minogue, and I know I could be the best lover she's ever had, but it just aint gonna happen, and for the same reasons. She isn't interested.

    Get past it, cos right now you are so busy thinking about the one that won't, that simply doesn't and never will fancy you, that you may be missing the twenty girls who you could be looking at you now and wishing you'd notice them.

    Life's too short to waste even a day of it. And chasing a girl who's not interested is a total waste.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Thefairmelissa:
    <STRONG>ther's no point you "knowing" that she could fall in love with you. Until she knows it too, nothing can and will happen.
    Melissa</STRONG>

    sounds like me with my ex! i know he shud love me and we shud be 2gether but he doesnt realised that but as far as im concerned it only a matter of time (probably sounds naive or sumfin but hey!)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey mate,

    If the feeling is when you see her and you feel your heart is literally going to burst through your chest as it beats that hard then I know exactly what you are going through, as it happened to me with one of my ex's.

    What I would say is that you are too good for her if she cant see you for what you are and my advice is to be with your friends until you get over her as I am sure that you will meet someone else that sees you for what you are and loves you for it.

    All the best mate and I hope it works out for you, whatever you choose to do. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Maybe you could try stalking her, or going through her bins to find out what she had for dinner last night, then you could bring it up in conversation, "I had spag bowl for dinner last night, what did you have?" she would reply "so did I" asuming you found the remains of spag bowl, I was just using that as an example but this would also work with most types of food, like fish and chips, that would be easy to see there would be lots of chip papers, but if she had soup you would be fucked because this wouldn't work unless she bottled it or you found the tin that would be handy if you found the soup tin, then you could say "I had soup last night what did you have?" But againyou would be fucked if it was her dad or even brother who had soup.(asuming she has a dad or brother).
    Its just a suggestion.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think if you really like her then you shouldnt give up. I mean you could leave it a while and then try again. I think it is always worth giving things another go if they are really important to you. I still have feelings for an ex of mine and Im not going to give up. Im just going to take a break and then give it another shot. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey Man,

    I think if you like someone so much its a hard thing to get over the same happened to me and I never stopped thinking about her for over 8 months and I could I of went mad to get with her!! well I went out with her that summer and ever since we been good friends but life is to short so go for the kill and ask her out!! if she does'nt like you don't give up just make friends with her and see how things go as friends first!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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