how soon?

Former Member

just wondering, how soon do you normally sleep with someone when your're in a realationship?

Just askin cuz ive been seein this lad im seein now for about 2weeks properly, and we were like messin about yesterday, and i was thinkin its like well soon if u know what i mean. My last bf it was within a week, but the bf before that it was about 6months!

Former Member

If you don't feel comfortable with the pace you are moving at then stop. Talk to your new lad about how you feel, and take it further when and if you feel happy and ready to. The fact you asked this suggests to me you're having doubts about whether it's what you want.

Susie

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Well, Normally its between 1 - 2 months, because then you can be sure that they are not just going to use you for sex and you can be trustworthy towards them, only have sex when both of you feel comfortable you know each other well enough etc etc etc
Jez

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How soon?there no real answer ot that, just when ever u feel happy n ready! could be one night, could be a week, could be a month, could eba year or more... depends on what you are like asa pesrson n awhat u believe in

Former Member

I waited a year but thats just me! I would wait til I elt I was in love before having sex.

Former Member

If you don't feel comfortable with the pace you are moving at then stop.

Talk to your new lad about how you feel

take it further when and if you feel happy and ready to

this suggests to me you're having doubts about whether it's what you want.

Don't know why but none of those sound like the things Tink would do. Might just be me... ?

Former Member

Tink, you are 15. You have been with him a week. They were right, in 10 years you will prob be a prostitute

Former Member

Originally posted by Jazza Bing
in 10 years you will prob be a prostitute

pwn.

Former Member

Originally posted by Jazza Bing
Tink, you are 15. You have been with him a week. They were right, in 10 years you will prob be a prostitute

Bet ten pounds that you wouldnt have said that to a guy though.

Former Member

Originally posted by Kermit
Bet ten pounds that you wouldnt have said that to a guy though.

To the guys face or over the interweb?

Former Member

Originally posted by Capacity
To the guys face or over the interweb?

Either. I wasnt meaning the threat of violence.

Former Member

ive varied from 1 year to 1 day so dont think it matters to much

Former Member

Re: how soon?

Originally posted by *TiNK*
just wondering, how soon do you normally sleep with someone when your're in a realationship?

Minutes, hours, days, weeks, just depends upon how it goes. Some people seem to think there should be a certain amount of time, or a certain number of times you see each other. I don't. It just depends upon the circumstances and how you both feel.

Mr_Wobble

Former Member

Originally posted by Capacity
Don't know why but none of those sound like the things Tink would do. Might just be me... ?

no she wouldnt

sorry tink but you seem to jump into bed at the first oppurtunity a guy gives you, you will get such a bad rep and theres no going back on that

your 15 for gods sake not even fucking legal and i bet youve lost count of the amount of guys youve been with

Former Member

fucks sake TWO WEEKS, havent you even done it by now. Are you frigid or something?

Former Member

chill out peeps. maybe tink moves faster than most people but she was askin for advice not judgement.

and to answer the question - yes that would be very fast for me. though actually :chin: erm. I'm frigid but hey it happens