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mothers and fathers

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
just to continue with the household theme <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

what parental status does everyone have ?

my mum and dad went through a very messy divorce when i was 9 <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

my mum has a partner whom has a son who lives with them

my dad re-married, they are childless <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My parents are about to celebrate their silver wedding anniversary <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    eb are you and RNT trying to 'take over' the site again as RNT put it?

    hmmmmmmm

    anyways, i still have both my parents together and im 18
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My father is an utter cünt but my mum is too scared to leave him. They've been together for 19 years in July.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Schnap me Baby:
    <STRONG>eb are you and RNT trying to 'take over' the site again as RNT put it?

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    no, just though a few topics which could be intresting were neccessary after another dull day <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well my dad died March10,1988.My Mom is still living.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by eb:
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    no, just though a few topics which could be intresting were neccessary after another dull day <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    fair enough <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have three stepmothers (well, only one currently)
    Have a stepfather as well

    And both of my parents are married. Just not to each other anymore.

    If you think this is bad, I have friend whose parents have remarried eight times. (Dad 6 and Mom twice)!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When my dad lost his job early '92, he next found employment in the North East. Being away enevitable led to divorce in '94 when i was 10. It wasn't 'messy' more 'fizzled out'. I was upset but to be honest i'd been expecting it.

    My mum met her b/f before the my parents were divcored, it was effectivly over before that anyway. She is still with here b/f today and she is in Prague with him as we speak.

    My dad went onto meet his g/f around '95 and they lived together until early this year. Not bitter, my dads happier now and thats all that matters.

    [ 07-05-2002: Message edited by: Dan the Man ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Alessandro:
    <STRONG>If you think this is bad, I have friend whose parents have remarried eight times. (Dad 6 and Mom twice)!</STRONG>

    Isn't that just standard practice in California? <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am the youngest of four kids, my parents will be celebrating 37 years together, August 6th.
    I'll be tying the knot next year, I hope my marriage will last that long <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My dads a wank, he had 7 different affairs behind my mums 27 year marriage and then blamed everything on her to get the divorce!!

    I hope he rots in hell cos hes a loser

    Apart from that my mums brill <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    [ 07-05-2002: Message edited by: wuckFit ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My mum was my dad's 3rd wife. My dad was my mum's 2nd husband. I have 4 half-siblings on my dad's side, all older, and a twin sister.

    My parents separated when I was 16, divorced a year later. I live with my mum when I'm not at uni, and my dad died in September of cancer.

    And that's the very short version of my parental status. Woohoo!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    they seperated ages ago.
    both got new partners...my mum gets married on june 14th.

    should I wear a top hat and a coat with tails...? <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My parents are still together - my mum is my dad's second wife and my dad is my mum's second husband. Hence I have 3 half brothers from my dad's first marriage; they're all a lot older than me and I don't know them very well (yet). I also have a 4th half brother from my mum's first marriage, and we're very close - he's 13 years older than me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my mum and dad are still married happily living together.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My parents separated about a month before my IGCSE exams, which proved a real bitch. Both of them have partners, although my Dad's gf happens to be the spawn of a very boring Satan. It hurt when Dad went into the doldrums of depression, but he seems ok now. It just confirmed the fact that I want to get out of here asap.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mine are together but they aren't married.

    I think that means I'm a bastard. Thanks for that Mum and Dad. <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My Mum and Dad are together but don't talk to each other, sleep in separate rooms and don't seem to like each other at all. Mental.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My Dad died when I was six <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    My mUm re married but I don't get on with my Step Dad so I'm looking forward to moving out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Two biological parents - one male, one female - both living in harmony after 28 years. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mum and Dad married in 1966, and are still going strong 35 years later.

    <STRONG>I'll</STRONG> have been married for 10 years in August!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mum and dad still happily married. 27 years i think
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Man Of Kent:
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    [qb]I'll</STRONG> have been married for 10 years in August![/QB]

    Congratulations!

    ***pats Kentish on back***

    Quick question: do you reckon individuals brought up in a stable family environment (in parental marital terms) are more likely to enjoy stable long-term relationships themselves? I'm only looking for opinion, not rigorous psychological debate...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mum and dad been divorced for like 9 years!
    I live with my mum and her b/f <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> and my sis lives with my dad!!! (but still see them everyday virtually)

    God why do parents have to complicate my otherwise simplistic life???? <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My mum and dad were happily married until he died when I was a baby.

    8 years down the line my mum married a guy who thought it was fun to threaten to stab me with his diabetes needles, and sniff through my underwear draw *I was nine by the way* and rape my mother and use her as a punch bag. He was out of the house after 4 months.

    So if you are a person who gets angry and wants to vent fustration violently, please get help for other peoples sake if not for yours

    My mum remarried when I was 12 and her and my step dad (who I get along well with) have been happily married ever since <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by SconeBeast:
    <STRONG>Congratulations!

    ***pats Kentish on back***
    </STRONG>
    Hmmm, thanks, but I don't think I should get all the glory for MoK's ten years of marriage <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    To be perfectly honest I'm not sure. I know I'm lucky to be one of a dying population who's parents are still together, but for how long is the question. I think I'm in the middle of an on-the-verge divorce. But I'm one of five kids (the middle one) and they've been together for 23yrs. Madness to thin kthey've spent all that time fine, but as soon as there's no kids under 5 to keep them together they're starting to drift. Or argue violently, one or the other <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my parents divorced when I was 5. We stayed with my mom. She got married 5 years later and is happily married since. My stepdad is great and i consider him to be my father.

    My father still stays in South Africa - he got married shortly after my mom got remarried and then divorced a few years later to get back with an ex g/f of 20 years. They were together for the last 8 years until she broke it off with him a few months back for having an affair behind her back. he is now marrying this woman in July.

    Guess who my roll model is pffft <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My parents have been separated 8 years... my dad had an affair when i was 9 and they broke up. He stayed with her until about 3 months ago, and i'm not going to offer an opinion on her, because although i was VERY aware of the fact that he had a girlfriend, and that he'd had an affair, and he knew that i knew, we just pretended he didn't/hadn't, and i only met her once, by chance, when i bumped into them at a gig.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mum and Dad divorced when I was 10.

    Went to live in a world of guilt with my Mum and wanker boyfriend.

    Saw Dad less and less... finally realising he is a selfish wanker who should set himself alight.

    Moved out by myself, get on with my Mum and haven't seen or spoken to my Dad in over three years (although he text messaged me on New Year's Eve saying have a good New Year... seriously).
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