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The best way about asking someone to get down ere.
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Im going to ask someone who ive liked for a while to come down to my house only Im not sure whether to just say it or work it around a conversation. I wouldnt usually care as much but as eye said its someone ive liked for abit. Ladies, if someone was to ask you would you prefer it up and direct or in a conversation as if a suggestion? Thanks. Tom
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Tom
Tbh I expected alot of people to suggest an indirect approach. Dunno why, I think thats the way we do things anyway - by playing stupid games and shit. Has gotta stop
*Puts his foot down
Shes with some guy. Im fucking devastated. (just thought id mention)
Really pisses me off, its the sort of thing you always give people advice for but when it happens to you it seems like no advice can do any good. I'll talk to her tomorrow.
we'd all give that advise but the best of us would prob only do it maybe half the time!
Still better to have it answered for now,
Dont go chasing her now- shes with someone youve signalled your interest- she'll come running bnack! they alwasy do!
anyway, poor luck mate. try and move on? trying to get your head around "well she did like me.." is just gonna fuck you up, you'll just keep thinking about it and in the end you'll have a headache the size of alaska and wondering why you bothered
but once again, poor luck mate
he came
edited to say: okay, so he came but that doesn't mean to say it didn't go all pear shape :mad:
Thanks for all your advice.
i know exactly what you mean. Once, I said to this girl, 'Will you go out with me?' She said yeah, couldnt have been any more blatant. Then on the Monday when it got round school she denied saying anything of the sort. Some people. :rolleyes:
Every time I read this title I think you mean something else.
That was the effect I was hoping to achieve. God I'm good
Well...
The guy she's with, he's a twat. And I was walking back from college and she was walking behind him and his mate. So when I gradually caught up with them as we were about to go seperate ways I walked by her and started playing with her hands and shit while he was about one front infront of us and he never knew.
I feel so proud. He's a prick. I wrote it in my lj I think. But anyway... chuffed.
She smiled and played with my hands back... and looked nervous incase the twat guy saw so I stopped because it wasnt nice for her. Then she said bye and we hadn't been talking all the way down the road... dead giveaway
I dont know where to go from here, any suggestions?
oooh im well excited for you!!! you must keep us informed
Sounds like you talk from experience.
Ha .. ha ... I was thinking the same thing
I think the longer you wait to ask someone out the harder it will become
So like Nike say
Just Do It!!