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shyness

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
The other nite i was dancing with a girl and we were getin on quite well if u catch my drift. I tried to kiss her but she wouldnt let me and kept sayin that i would regret it in the morning but i knew that i wouldnt have. I think shes never been kissed before and i wouldnt mind going wit her wot can i do??

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmmm difficult one.

    If you know the girl, then get to know her better. Talk to her, and soon enough u will find out what her problem is (if there is one)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The prob is shes too bloody shy!! Its a very sexy shyness tho!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've done that a few times: "You'll only regret it in the morning." Talk to her again and let her know you're still interested. Make it clear that you really genuinely like her and it wasn't just the alcohol talking that night!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think u r probably rite, she probably hasn't kissed ne1 b4 if she did that! I had a similar prob wit my ex, Tom. After I had been wit him for about a month we still hadn't even kissed, so i thought that maybe he woz shy & didn't want 2 make the 1st move so i did but he pulled away straight away & said that he wasn't a 'kissy' person (i wrote about this on this site!). I woz a bit pissed off coz we'd been 2gether for a while & i started thinking maybe it woz me but then one day after we'd been 2gether about 6 weeks i woz round his house & my mum came 2 pick me up i woz putting my shoes on & he suddenly grabbed hold of me & said u can't go yet & i said why & he kissed me! He then admitted the next day that he had never kissed ne1 b4 which is why he'd been like he woz! Every1 told me 2 talk 2 him after wot happened when i tried 2 kiss him the 1st time but he just kept changing the subject & u have said she is shy so i don't recommend talking 2 her, maybe bring it up once & if she doesn't wanna talk about it leave it! Just give her a bit of time & maybe she will come round! (Hopefully sooner than my ex!) Good Luck XxX
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree, i mean if she is shy then u may make her embarrased by talking about it, but u could do it once and c wot her reaction is. but deffo show her u genuinly like her and then she may not be as shy about things.

    but if u seem 2 pushy u may scare her away 4 good <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt; !!!

    [This message has been edited by jolizzie11 (edited 11-03-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok i take it that MAYBE she has never been kissed b4 and is nervous...but i'll not ruin out any other possbilities!

    take it slow. get to know her and build up a friendship and trust. you don't have to kiss her to be happy, just being with her can be enough too. a kiss is just a bonus to me. sometimes i just like holding and being close.
    spend more time together and don't try to rush it. after some time maybe you can have another go at it and if she gives in...HAPPY DAYS!!

    if not...talk to her and assure her. im sure as relationship progresses...she'll be dying to get a kiss anyway!! hahaha!! natural i say. just a matter of time...and if she's worth the wait u know what to do.

    children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think u shud b st8 up n say u don't thin u wud regret coz u really like her and wud like to get to know her better.

    She mite b cautious of guys usin her, so just make it obvious that ur not like that, n be really sweet. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Good luck! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes i think i know her
    Sometimes i really wish i did
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thnx guys now im even more confused, ill keeps yous informed.!!

    their tops are made out of rubber and their bottoms are made out of springs <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Tigerdude:
    their tops are made out of rubber and their bottoms are made out of springs <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    eh? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;



    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think hes on about tigger!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    YEAH, TIGGERS FOR ALL !!!!!!
    WOOHP-DE-DOOPER-LOOP-YHE-LOOPER-ALLY-OOPER-BOUNCER.



    i have yet to find the perfect grain of sand!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wowwwwwwwww! erm u like tigger then????!!! so has ne thing happened with this gal??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol yea tigger is cute <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i still dont no whether to take it further or leave it be. It could be one of my many obssessions and will pass wit time. I was goin to rite her a little letter but i still dont no, altho everyone who has seen the photos of me and her together say we look like the perfect couple. But shes a bit quiet for my liking, but then a change would be nice and afterall shyness is v sexy.
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;


    i have yet to find the perfect grain of sand!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    she may not have kissed ne1 b4, but i think if u did ask her u would embarras her,best thing is 2 talk more @ college, school or wot eva, and get 2 know her more, she might just be 1 of those peeps who need 2 know sum1 really well b4 they kiss......good luck!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Tigerdude:

    their tops are made out of rubber and their bottoms are made out of springs <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    they're bouncy bouncy bouncy bouncy, fun fun fun fun fun <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    (their tails are made out of springs)

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; j9

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think its maybe just the urge to have a gf at the mo + that i wood go out with almost any1, but i still dont no if i want to take it any further or not.

    i have yet to find the perfect grain of sand!!
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