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hOw Do I gEt HiM bAcK?!?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I was involved with a guy who had a g'friend, th@ ended he had split with his g'friend 4 me, then ended up gettin back with his g'friend, then i ended up gettin with his cousin, then i decided it was a rebound thing with his cousin and i told him th@.

I started really gettin 2 know his cousin & likin him, & gettin together with him again, we weren't together though as he had a g'friend away in australia for a year, he has just recently split up with his g'friend, i wanted 2 start goin out with him, but he sed he wanted 2 b single 4 a bit, as he had been with his g'friend 4 6 yrs.

I kissed blokes in front of him, wen i was drunk was he got annoyed about, then he started goin off with this otha girl and sleepin with her, and bein really nasty 2 me.

I started 2 seem really desperate ringing him all the time, i stopped gettin with otha blokes and just went after him, but he just rejecting me now.

We were all recently round a m8ts hopuse he was there with this girl and he took her back to his place in front of me, i was well upset, he is completly out of order, but i can't help still likin him.

I can neva get with him again, coz i'd just b a fool, but how do i get him 2 want me, coz he used to say it took him a long time 2 get otha me wen i told him he was a rebound thing and he was really hurt by th@.

soz 4 the essay!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Knee High Stripy Socks:
    <STRONG>I'm sorry, Turtle is rubbing off on me</STRONG>

    Pardon? Jeez, you guys....


    To you answer the post, Racy, don't bother. You've well and truly scuppered this one. If you love him, then don't fool around. It's too late for anything now; he won't trust you as far as he can throw you.

    He's not out of order, you are. You can't treat a bloke like this, and then expect him to want you. Sorry if it's harsh, but that's the way it is!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by DJP:
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    Pardon? Jeez, you guys....

    </STRONG>

    Yeah, could you tell me next time! <IMG SRC="redface.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That sounds like a whole messy deal.

    I suggest you just leave it. I know you'll hate this but you brought it on yourself.

    It is obvious this guy was feelin sensitive about losing his x. Drunk or not it was a mistake to get off with other blokes in front of him.

    He LIKED you, he wanted a long term thing which required patience which you didn't show, or couldn't be bothered with.

    The other girls sound like a rebound thing from you. If he did do it to get back at you (which I don't see any evidence of) he's a dick head.

    Also, no-one likes to be told they are a reject, especially when they really like you and want a long-term relationship.

    You violated his trust in your feelings for him by kissing other blokes. YOU were out of order. He may have took revenge or you could have screwed him up, did you think of that? Either way, just leave it.

    Scourning I know, but read what you have written and tell me this isn't very very probable.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Has this got anythin 2 do wiv ur other post??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh, the irony.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LMAO. The same thought did occur, you're just quicker than me for a change DJP. Worrying.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why do you want him to want you..if you don't want to get back with him anyway?

    Tad childish isn't it?

    Ever heard of "What goes around comes around?"

    Think about it,
    Phil. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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