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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Well i start again, me and my other half were havin one of those deep talks about everything. She wanted to kno everything that was bugging me, and as from my last post i put up on here i told her. About how her best mate Rob was getting on my nurves and wanted to kno what was going on. She said to me that they are just friends, and said he is her only best friend and they have known each other for about three years and out of them three years one year of that they were kind of seeing each other. She says everytime they see each other he try's it on cause the way it use to be between them was they would kiss & hug and do the rest apart from sex. But know she is going out with me she wants a different friend ship. Like a family love friendship. But he is finding it heard to do this even tho he has had six months to get use to the idea. And when he gets a girl friend she said she get now gelious. Which kind of hurt me. Another thing that she said to hurt me was four or five months ago she was going to leave me and goto him. She saw the look on my face and she knew i was very pissed of, but i kept my cool. What do i do? I did not get any sleep last night cause of what she told me, but i dont want to leave her cause i love her so so much. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok, first off, ur living proof of what is wrong with the education system. speak ENGLISH dammit, not some bastardised dialect.

    second off, i know how rob feels - i guess in some ways i'm in the same position with a friend of mine. he may be having trouble adjusting to the idea, but so long as he's smart enuff not to try anything on, and ur gf's smart enuff to resist anything he may do, then it's all good.

    you gotta learn to trust people. i know it's hard, and i know to some people it's a laughable idea, but believe it or not, people individually are very caring, responsible people.

    don't freak urself out about stuff until there's something worthwhile to get urself freaked out about. or if u want a good nights sleep, dump ur gf. cos if u keep worrying, and if u let this keep niggling away at u, u'll end up breaking up with her sooner or later anyways.

    good luck.

    If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm in a similar situation but not as bad as your's to be honest.

    I think the worst thing is noing that she was going to get back with him.

    I'd tell her to decide what and who she wants. If she goes for u over him i'd let her no that I didn't want her seeing this bloke as much.

    This sounds harsh but ever time she see's him she may grow more and more to him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by novakovino:
    I'm in a similar situation but not as bad as your's to be honest.

    I think the worst thing is noing that she was going to get back with him.

    I'd tell her to decide what and who she wants. If she goes for u over him i'd let her no that I didn't want her seeing this bloke as much.

    This sounds harsh but ever time she see's him she may grow more and more to him.

    I disagree with this. If you tell her you don't want her to see this bloke, then she'll just resent you for it, and this will probably cause a rift. I know cause my boyfriend hates one of my best mates (male) and makes life so difficult, slagging him rotten when we see him. And i have to sit there and take it. I hate it.

    It'd say the exact opposite. Leave it up to her. See who she picks. Tell her you love her, but that you want to see her happy. Then let her decide. At least then, once she has made her decision, you will know for certain one way or another.

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