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Problem child!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Well i have 2 children my eldest is giving me loads of hassles right now, and is driving me up the wall.
Well firstly my eldest (Daniel, 7) is always bullying my youngest (Luke 5) and i have tryed everything to make him stop it but he just wont.
Luke wont fight back which makes it worst, tryed telling Luke to fight back but he wont coz when he as hit back at Daniel, Daniel will really hurt him.
Tonight Daniel really beat up Luke, and Luke for once hit back at Daniel and coz i didnt run to Daniel and give him a cuddle he called me a bitch <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; in which really hurt me.

Daniel's teacher was telling me today also that he as been suspended from all playtimes as he bullies, uses abusive language and sticks 2 fingers up at other kids <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; its just getting worse and not sure what to do anymore and is getting me down.
I am having problems with is bedtime he will not go to bed as he always wants to sleep with me or wants to stay down stairs with me until i go bed <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; i,m just not having luck with him at all.
If anyone as any suggestions about what to do please message me, will be grateful.

By the way i,m Lisa

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think j9 wud b the best person to ask about this, because she had a similar problem with her son but she's not around @ the moment.

    I hope she comes back soon!

    Welcome to thesite by the way!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i just dug out a link from an old thread. Maybe it will help to see sum1 else in a similar situation?
    http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum22/HTML/000404.html



    If the sky that we look upon
    should tumble and fall
    or the mountains should crumble in the sea
    I won't cry, I won't cry,
    No, I won't shed a tear
    Just as long as you stand
    Stand by me
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm not being funny but he sounds like he has some sort of behaviour problem. My brother who is now 13 was expelled from school when he was 6/7 and then expelled again when he was 10. He has been in a few special schools (schools for kids with behaviour problems) and he is now on medication which seems to be sorting him out.

    Speak to your GP about him and ask about ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder). This does sound a bit drastic but if he has got a problem then it needs sorting out.

    ADHD has only just recently been recognised as an illness in the UK, but GPs are coming round and are understanding the effects it not only has on the individual but also the family.

    Have a look around the net for articles and sites about ADHD or ADD, and compare the symptoms to your lad. Both of these illnesses are not discovered through and medical procedure, as they are mental and are only recognised by trained people, but you are the person who sees these symptoms the most and therefore should be able to diagnose if it is one of these problems.

    Peter
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, from what I can tell he might be experienceing some kind of problems or that he's got one of those Disorders (like PC was talking about).

    You should try find out if something is bothering him and go see your GP. I hope you can find the solution to this problem. Good luck!

    -Faf
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