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Walking A Lady Home - Opinions

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
What do you (guys and gals) think about walking a lady home, especially at night?

I think it's just plain good manners, but some people seem to get quite pissed off at it - as if I were some hyper-sexist chauvinist pig.

Thoughts?

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I totally agree, I would walk a girl home out of good manners but it has backfired on me. I was walking back home from a club with a girl I knew from work and I walked her back home, she got the impression I really liked her and she told me she loved me!!! She sent me a text a few days ago saying the same thing even though she knows I have a girlfriend!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I personally don't mind if a bloke offers to walk me home. I do, however, get fairly peeved off when I want to have some time to myself and blokes insist that they HAVE to walk me home as the big wide world is such a scary place.

    They don't seem to understand that if they do that I'm just going to go out again as soon as they're gone so that I can have a bit of time to myself, and I'll probably be gone for longer than otherwise, so really they're just helping me be put in more danger.

    So, yeah, make the offer, but if the girl says no then respect it.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well it'd be kinda just plain stupid for me, since most of the girls i know live nowhere NEAR me (and i mean like a 20 minute train-ride away). so unless they're gonna invite me to stay at their place, i aint staying over. :P

    on the other hand, i think it is just a courtesy a male should extend at the end of a late night drinking binge. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like it when a guy offers 2 walk me home but as already has been said if i say no i mean no.

    One thing that really pissed me off about a yr ago when i woz goin out wit one of my ex's woz that i woz down @ the Reading festival site wit him & his mates but when i had 2 go home i didn't really wanna walk on my own but he woz 2 busy flirting wit this group of girls 2 give a shit about me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; so his mate walked me home in the end.....thats when i knew the relationship woz over...bastard <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    After protecting a fair maiden on the dangerous journey home, the reward of a good-night kiss isn't too much too ask for... is it?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It depends... If the bloke did actually walk the "fair maiden" home out of the goodness of his heart. If he only did it hoping for a bit of action then he doesn't. So this, Captain Kirk, is where you learn to lie... Works with me everytime! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;



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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Learn to lie? I wrote the text book, baby! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aaah... So it's you I have to blame for all the nasty liars I've gone out with. I knew there must be some source for their evilness and now I have found it.

    I must hunt you down and kill you, only then may I be freeeeeeeeeeee!!!

    Or I could just get you to teach me how to do it so I can give as good as I get... How much do you charge for private lessons?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think that it is just common curtousy to walk a girl home but if a girl says no then you need to respect that... admitedley we are smaller than you and not as strong but it doesnt mean that we are soooooooo nieve that people need to hold our hand the entire time...
    W_G

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's part of it, I think. I don't for a minute think that a lady can't open a door for herself, but I think it's nice to open it for her. Similarly walking her home at night - especially at night, in fact. Inner-city Coventry (my term-time residence) isn't a terribly cheery place when it's dark.
    Cicero, Gladiator:
    "Sometimes I do what I want to do. The rest of the time? I do what I have to."

    Walking a lady home is, at least for me, something I want to do because I have to - case of 'to thine own self be true.'
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Snow White:
    I must hunt you down and kill you, only then may I be freeeeeeeeeeee!!!

    Or I could just get you to teach me how to do it so I can give as good as I get... How much do you charge for private lessons?

    I charge by the hour, and I don't 'cum' cheap. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If a guy walks me home, I sometimes think it is because they are hoping to get a kiss...! (that is, if i haven't kissed him already)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think its common courtesy but most of the time my boyfriend drives everywhere so thats even better!

    i liked it when blokes used to offer but i didnt mind walking home on my own as long as u can protect urself!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Captain Kirk :
    I charge by the hour, and I don't 'cum' cheap.

    If you really are the master of lying then I think it's worth it... And if you could teach me how to get rid of my conscience then I'd be even more grateful - it keeps making me do nice things. Bloody conscience.



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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Snow White:
    And if you could teach me how to get rid of my conscience then I'd be even more grateful - it keeps making me do nice things. Bloody conscience.


    Gota hate it


    its not illegal til u get caught <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/monkbum.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As for walking girls home - as long as you do it with good intentions and not just getting a lay out of it.

    If you genuinely care about some one theres nothing wrong with walking them home and making sure they get there ok. unless they want time alone, as mentioned above, in that case don't force it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think there's anything wrong with walking a woman home either, i think the only people who do have a problem with it are the femenists!



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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Snow White:
    If you really are the master of lying then I think it's worth it... And if you could teach me how to get rid of my conscience then I'd be even more grateful - it keeps making me do nice things. Bloody conscience.

    I killed my conscience with excessive alcohol consumption. Its a hard road but worth it in the end.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1 of my (female) friends b/f insists on escorting her, by CAR!!! everywhere round town, practically even in the middle of the day. i wont say where i live, but the town has the lowest crime rate in the UK, so its pretty safe as they go. as 4 my g/f, she can bloody well walk down the hill on her own, as its a bugger 4 me 2 get bak up!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt;

    "I see no vestage of a beginning, no sign of an end"
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What about girls walking guys home? Okay, admittedly, this usually only happens when blokes get drunk, can't stand up etc. Good fun though.
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