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I like someone......

.....But i cant tell you who it is.
I really dnt know what to do here, i like this guy but im not sure how he feels about me.
He makes me laugh and seems like he genuinly cares about me.
I dnt know what do do, what if i tell him and he dnt feel the same way and i compeletly botch up our friendship.
GNAAAA!! it sooo hard.
Beep boop. I'm a bot.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: I like someone......
    Originally posted by Zella
    .....But i cant tell you who it is.
    I really dnt know what to do here, i like this guy but im not sure how he feels about me.
    He makes me laugh and seems like he genuinly cares about me.
    I dnt know what do do, what if i tell him and he dnt feel the same way and i compeletly botch up our friendship.
    GNAAAA!! it sooo hard.

    I am going through that too. Ugh..I even set him up with someone last night! :|:|:| GAAAAAH indeed. :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Let me guess, he's on these boards :rolleyes: he'll probably already know now.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by HunnyPot
    Let me guess, he's on these boards :rolleyes: he'll probably already know now.

    Is it me?:p :confused::o

    Relationships on these boards are ok, but I think you'd be better off finding a person who doesn't know your past so much. It's easy just to look back on here and see the personal things you've said and felt.

    Find a person closer to home whom you can feel, see & look into their eyes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless

    look into their eyes.

    whats she gona do hypnotize them :p

    Tell em hun! it wont mess up your friendship if he doesnt feel the same, as long as he's mature then it wont mess up your friendship... but u neva know... he could really like you too.

    :heart: ahhh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *TiNK*
    whats she gona do hypnotize them :p

    Tell em hun! it wont mess up your friendship if he doesnt feel the same, as long as he's mature then it wont mess up your friendship... but u neva know... he could really like you too.

    :heart: ahhh.

    Looking into someone’s eyes is better then reading what they have to say like on here!!!

    You can't judge for real with a words, its too easy to lie and mislead people. If your able to look into their eyes. It's easier to see if they mean what they say.

    I've been here and done it. I know what I'm talking about (for once!):p

    If she can meet him then yeah, then that's a different story.

    But starting a relationship on here is ok. But meet the person first so you know what they look like and you should be able to sense if you believe what they say.

    Long distance relationship aren't very good. (for me!)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless
    Looking into someone’s eyes is better then reading what they have to say like on here!!!

    You can't judge for real with a words, its too easy to lie and mislead people. If your able to look into their eyes. It's easier to see if they mean what they say.

    oohh ok i get ya. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If your friendship is really strong, it will survive. I went through the same in March-ish, when I decided to tell one of my best friends how much I liked her. We're pretty much as close as ever now (barring the fact that she's moved to Uni) even though she didn't feel the same.

    I found that it really helped to get it off my chest, I had felt that way for too long and I just had to tell her. It's an individual thing, but it sounds to me like you feel you need to tell him how to feel for the sake of your own sanity.

    If you think, knowing him as you do, that your friendship will survive if you get rejected, then it's worth the risk.

    Good luck! :thumb:
    Picc.
    xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nothing ventured ... nothing gained .. it's really as simple as that sometimes!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: I like someone......
    Originally posted by Zella
    .....But i cant tell you who it is.
    Now, why can't you tell us? I mean, the only reason is if it's someone who knows about thesite, or... aha! ...somone from here! *thinks* :chin: Now, does this have anything to do with the recent meet? Come on, spill the beans! :D

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: I like someone......
    Originally posted by Zella
    what if i tell him and he dnt feel the same way and i compeletly botch up our friendship.
    Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Tell him and see what happens. You may loose a friend, but I doubt it. Things may not quite be the same afterwards, but you can still carry on being friends - you just have to try to put it behind you if he's not interested.

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: I like someone......
    Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
    Now, why can't you tell us? I mean, the only reason is if it's someone who knows about thesite, or... aha! ...somone from here! *thinks* :chin: Now, does this have anything to do with the recent meet? Come on, spill the beans! :D

    Mr_Wobble ;)

    This is going to be exactly like the blonde_batman/molo saga...I can feel it in my bones...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it's not...rude_boyz is it? :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lucifer devil
    it's not...rude_boyz is it? :eek2:

    :lol::lol::lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it might be :eek2:

    or am i completely so very wrong?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lucifer devil
    it's not...rude_boyz is it? :eek2:
    :lol: Well, they say opposites attract. And some couples do have tempestuous relationships where they seem to hate each other, so who knows? :chin: :lol::D

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Gavman
    :lol::lol::lol:

    seconded
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lucifer devil
    or am i completely so very wrong?

    :yes:



    i don't know who it is, but i think it's fair to say it isn't him
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: I like someone......
    Originally posted by HunnyPot
    This is going to be exactly like the blonde_batman/molo saga...I can feel it in my bones...

    :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i have an incling

    ooo zella pm me and tell me!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ...it just better not be molo...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Na its not molo not my type, great guy tho.


    And Rude_boyz?:eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by blonde__batman
    ...it just better not be molo...

    Aaaannd whyyyyy not?! :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmm, i seened to be ok when i told my best mate i was inlove with her, she just took it in her stride and were both still the best of mate, its best to tell the person how you feel, no secretes (sp?) if its supposed to be it will be, if not then just move on after you told him, and if its makes the friendship worse then he cant be much of a friend in the 1st place can he... well thats my 2 cents.. :P hope it works out
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i am at the centre of thesite gossip web. i know all. yay me!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah well.. well... im watching halloween the 25th annervesary special edition so yey me :P
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im putting my money on either Mrmint or Rude_boyZ :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Samael
    im putting my money on either Mrmint or Rude_boyZ :D

    You'll lose your money that way :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Samael
    im putting my money on either Mrmint or Rude_boyZ :D

    EEEEH!!! WRONG! gimme your money:lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oi! mrmint is one sexy geeza, i'd go out with him if i was gay. awww hell, i'd go out with him anyway.

    he likes my sideburns :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :nervous:
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