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what ya reckon?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Just wanted another opinon. Theres this bloke who i really like, been out with him a couple of times now. Was out on Tuesday with him and stayed at his. think he likes me. I want to see him on saturday night, do you reckon i should phone him?? He isn't into girlfriends and i don't want to seem like i'm coming on too strong. Would you phone? My view is if you don't ask you don't get, but i don't want to put him off. Fine lines

Thanks

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: what ya reckon?
    Originally posted by dIScO DiVA
    Just wanted another opinon. Theres this bloke who i really like, been out with him a couple of times now. Was out on Tuesday with him and stayed at his. think he likes me. I want to see him on saturday night, do you reckon i should phone him?? He isn't into girlfriends and i don't want to seem like i'm coming on too strong. Would you phone? My view is if you don't ask you don't get, but i don't want to put him off. Fine lines

    Thanks

    :lol:

    Yes, phone him. He tells you to fuck off - it's not the end of the world. And there's plenty more fish and all that. Don't and you'll regret it.

    http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=88 :blush:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    don't call. if he's interested he'll call you. but if he only wanted sex and not a girlfriend and you slept with him then i doubt he'll bother to call.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wasn't sure where to post it.

    I don't want a relationship with him just a bit of fun.

    Cheers
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah it is just sex really. and just to enjoy a bit of male company. Came out of a very violent relationship 6 months ago, not ready to commit to anything just yet
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: what ya reckon?
    Originally posted by BritJames
    ya know there's a relationship forum yeh?

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    does it make that much of a difference, is it that big a deal?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I take all opinions on board.

    It will take me a long time to fall for anybody again, i just enjoy his company. And not forgetting to mention the sex is good.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: what ya reckon?
    Originally posted by wee wuman
    Originally posted by BritJames
    ya know there's a relationship forum yeh?

    [/QUOTE

    does it make that much of a difference, is it that big a deal?

    You may say that if you have a little cut on your arm.But what if that cut gets infected. And what if the next thing you know some bloke's stabbed you in the cheek with a big needle. But it's ok...you're drifting to sleep. Happy.

    But where the fuck is my arm!?

    I'd call that a big deal!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: what ya reckon?
    Originally posted by z0ma
    You may say that if you have a little cut on your arm.But what if that cut gets infected. And what if the next thing you know some bloke's stabbed you in the cheek with a big needle. But it's ok...you're drifting to sleep. Happy.

    But where the fuck is my arm!?

    I'd call that a big deal!

    you have so taken me the wrong way. i meant that was it a big deal that she hadnt posted this in the relationships formum. read more carefully!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If your only after male company and the sex then phone him.

    why not one would say?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: what ya reckon?
    Originally posted by wee wuman
    you have so taken me the wrong way. i meant that was it a big deal that she hadnt posted this in the relationships formum. read more carefully!

    No, I think I see where he is coming from. If more new people see that they can post relationship problems in here, they will do so, and it will get worse.

    That, or he's wasted.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: what ya reckon?
    Originally posted by wee wuman
    you have so taken me the wrong way. i meant that was it a big deal that she hadnt posted this in the relationships formum. read more carefully!

    What the sheeeet.

    No, YOU listen more carefully. How can I take 'does it make that much of a difference, is it that big a deal?' the wrong way!? Please explain how there is more than one meaning.

    Wise up, and as they say, listen to the doc lady. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well in the end i didn't have to phoen him, he phoned me. Asked if i fancied a quiet one with him. But, unfortunately my friend from London decided to come up last minute Saturday morning, we went out and got mullered in Manchester. Bugger!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I feel more complete knowing that :/
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: what ya reckon?
    Originally posted by z0ma
    What the sheeeet.

    No, YOU listen more carefully. How can I take 'does it make that much of a difference, is it that big a deal?' the wrong way!? Please explain how there is more than one meaning.

    Wise up, and as they say, listen to the doc lady. :D

    firstly dont be so agressive and secondly i was refering to the fact that someone mentioned that she hadnt posted this in the relationships forum, i wasnt refering to the scars !
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well as this is a chat room and i asked for advice i just thought i would post what happened, just like many others do. Sacarsm fecks me right off!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dIScO DiVA
    Sacarsm fecks me right off!

    Aww does it really? That's nice isn't it. :p

    And wee wuman: I was only messing about, wasn't being aggressive. But...what scars!? :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dIScO DiVA
    Well as this is a chat room and i asked for advice i just thought i would post what happened, just like many others do. Sacarsm fecks me right off!

    I think you'll find this is a message board, not a chatroom. Do you see anyone saying a/s/l around here? do you see anybody asking for cyber?

    do you see?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by z0ma
    But...what scars!? :confused:

    The scars on ur arm from the cut that got infected... :rolleyes:

    :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cute_Baby_Bear
    The scars on ur arm from the cut that got infected... :rolleyes:

    :p

    Oh I see, makes sense now. :p

    But re-read, there are no scars, for - they amputated my arm! :crazyeyes
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by z0ma
    Aww does it really? That's nice isn't it. :p

    And wee wuman: I was only messing about, wasn't being aggressive. But...what scars!? :confused:
    It really really is.
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