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Love him or not?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I really love this boy but recently we have been avoiding each other. I know that I still love him, but I don't know how I feel about him if you know what I mean. My friends keep interfering as well and are always trying to get us to hug each other. He nkows that I am avoiding him, but I need time to think about my feelings. Anyone else ever felt the same? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tell your friends to get lost. They shouldn't interfere, that is a very childish way of conducting a relationship.

    Be mature and tell him that you love him /like him a lot (probably best) but need some time because you've got some things to sort out.

    Them spend some time away from him, even if it is only a week. Make sure you don't hang out togehter. In this time spend more time with your mates and with yourself, talk and think through your problem.

    Good luck!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its so annoying when friends interfer espically when they dont have a clue what you feel like, if you are confused about this boy maybe time to your slef to get things sorted in your head would be good <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    first of all it isnt love your only 14/15. but i know how embaressing it can be in an awrkward situation like this... i have been there! just snap at your friends..if they see how much it is bothering you if they really are your friends they will stop.
    did you and this boy go out?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Definately try and sort it out one to one with him. Yeah, maybe like deeby doo said...you should take some time out. Good luck whatever you do! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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