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How do u ladz work?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
We jus dont getchya! HOW do ur minds work? WHY do u act like u do around lasses? For instance we know a group of lads who one minute decide we are their best mates but when we wont go wiv them (not because we dont wanna, its just that they choose ridiculous times and places) they go REALLY nasty and wont listen 2 us and then act as if they HATE us! C'mon spill.....

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea, really what is up with that?!!
    We turn you down and then suddenly we're ugly bitches. And the logic in that is where exactly?????..........
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi,

    Well I'd say that not all guys are the same for starters :-) Some of us do care about girls and what they think etc.

    Are you mixing with the right type of guys? Don't judge them on their looks, go for personality for starters... girls like guys can look something they arn't quite easily!

    Why not be a girl, rather than acting like lads...? come to think of it I bet it must be quite confusing nowadays for girls!? I think some of the lads don't know what they want and don't treat you correctly.

    With these types of lads you need to remember they want women on their arm and see it as a triumph... to compare with the other lads etc.

    Does that help?

    Ian.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Err... I dunno! Didn't realise I did that. I have quite a few female friends but I don't get pissed off with them if they don't want to go out to places. At least I don't think I do... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt; Okay, tell me what's up with youse then....

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well we really fancy these lads and I think they know it. Well the one who I fancy has told people he likes me but thinks that I am jus THERE 2 much! I live on the next street, for God's sake! Why cant u handle a bit of compromising tho?! U want 2 go wiv us in the most stoopid places!Snicketts, fields! Then when we say no u wont listen to y and slag us off?!!!! U confuse us loads!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What's a snickett? Oh and by "GO WITH" I take it you mean "take part in the act of carnal knowledge" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; Well, there's a simple reason for that and that's that we want to shag you right there right now. Sounds crude but there you go. Unless there's anywhere better, it's the field or nothing.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OK let's see if I got this right. You like this guy, and he seems to really fancy you. But then he gets shitty with you because you won't shag him in an alleyway?

    It's confusing cos he's nice to you one minute, and treats you like crap if he doesn't get his own way. Sorry to tell you this, but he sounds like he's just trying to get his end away and doesn't care much about you or your feelings.

    Hope you aren't too upset by his childish and selfish behaviour. Take it from me, saying 'no' to him was the right thing to do, and it showed you what he was really like. Not all boys are like that, so I hope a nicer one turns up soon!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Firstly, my respect goes out to Ian for his reply to you. All blokes aren't the same and i don't know about anybody else but i get really peeved when people say i act like someone else. I am who i am, and you are who you are. You shouldn't compare people, it's not right. I'm not havin a go at u, i is just expressing meself. If those blokes want to have you when they feel that they want to, then tell them to get lost coz they're just using you. They're just picking you up and putting you down when they're finished. They dont want you, they want your bodies. Good luck in sorting them out.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you want to know how we tick? We wouls love to know how you tick!!!!
    Read a few of these book s and youll get a good idea on the male frame of mind (if hes over 18 at least)
    Hi fidelity by Nick Hornby
    Man and Boy by nick Parsons
    Epsedair St by Iain Banks,
    Thomas the Tank engine (only joking)!!!

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ian:
    Hi,

    Well I'd say that not all guys are the same for starters :-) Some of us do care about girls and what they think etc.


    That's true but it's probably in the way that you say no, it may make him feel invisible and stupid but the most likely is that he's a sad virgin who's hell bent on sex and doesn't care for you. my advice is stay away and go for a guy like me who's considerate but also popular and isn't really bothered if you won't go with him in the middle of a field. By the way your dialogue sounds like your from the north whereabouts?



    Live life, get drunk, you only live once, so who cares if you can't remember half of it?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    funnily enuff, High Fidelity is one of our favourite books! but i s'pose u have 2 b a man 2 REALLY understand it! well we've given up hope on these lads and told one of em where he stands!! he's actually kinda tuk it in aswel! they drunkenly told us that they did want our bodies most, so we told em where 2 go. well, we're not steroeotypin u all!! we've had a few of the sensitive caring types, as boyfriends before, i think we just kinda like the lads who treat us like s**t, stupid aint it? well we'll c if they can actually cope without us, eh?
    ps we r from "up north"!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi!
    A know whit ye mean about likin guys who treat u like s**t. A wiz goin wi a guy 4 over a year and he treated me like that, but a couldny help likin him. A think it makes it a bit mare excitin. Where up North ye fae? Am fae West Kilbride, near Glasgow.
    Cheeky*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well if your not willing we will get upset and then we show our anger and we get nasty, if they have a nasty streak and were teenagers who are moody bastards so if we get moody and call u some bad things u will know that we will come back to u eventually.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think most guys can be sweet and charming when they think they have a chance of getting off with you, most of the same guys don't give a damn who they get off with.

    I would say that it's probably not such a good idea to go off with such guys ('cause they only want sex they're not really bothered about you).
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