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How do u ladz work?
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We jus dont getchya! HOW do ur minds work? WHY do u act like u do around lasses? For instance we know a group of lads who one minute decide we are their best mates but when we wont go wiv them (not because we dont wanna, its just that they choose ridiculous times and places) they go REALLY nasty and wont listen 2 us and then act as if they HATE us! C'mon spill.....
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We turn you down and then suddenly we're ugly bitches. And the logic in that is where exactly?????..........
Well I'd say that not all guys are the same for starters :-) Some of us do care about girls and what they think etc.
Are you mixing with the right type of guys? Don't judge them on their looks, go for personality for starters... girls like guys can look something they arn't quite easily!
Why not be a girl, rather than acting like lads...? come to think of it I bet it must be quite confusing nowadays for girls!? I think some of the lads don't know what they want and don't treat you correctly.
With these types of lads you need to remember they want women on their arm and see it as a triumph... to compare with the other lads etc.
Does that help?
Ian.
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It's confusing cos he's nice to you one minute, and treats you like crap if he doesn't get his own way. Sorry to tell you this, but he sounds like he's just trying to get his end away and doesn't care much about you or your feelings.
Hope you aren't too upset by his childish and selfish behaviour. Take it from me, saying 'no' to him was the right thing to do, and it showed you what he was really like. Not all boys are like that, so I hope a nicer one turns up soon!
Read a few of these book s and youll get a good idea on the male frame of mind (if hes over 18 at least)
Hi fidelity by Nick Hornby
Man and Boy by nick Parsons
Epsedair St by Iain Banks,
Thomas the Tank engine (only joking)!!!
That's true but it's probably in the way that you say no, it may make him feel invisible and stupid but the most likely is that he's a sad virgin who's hell bent on sex and doesn't care for you. my advice is stay away and go for a guy like me who's considerate but also popular and isn't really bothered if you won't go with him in the middle of a field. By the way your dialogue sounds like your from the north whereabouts?
Live life, get drunk, you only live once, so who cares if you can't remember half of it?
ps we r from "up north"!!
A know whit ye mean about likin guys who treat u like s**t. A wiz goin wi a guy 4 over a year and he treated me like that, but a couldny help likin him. A think it makes it a bit mare excitin. Where up North ye fae? Am fae West Kilbride, near Glasgow.
Cheeky*
I would say that it's probably not such a good idea to go off with such guys ('cause they only want sex they're not really bothered about you).