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How Many Times Have You Been In Love?
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Hey, everyone! Just intrigued to see how many times people think they have fallen in love. I reckon I have been in love three times so far. <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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Its a shame when that love isnt returned - ive had that for 4 years <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Although I do think the wrord is hideously overused.
Everyone has their own idea what they believe love to be though, I suppose.
Once. But there is potential on the horizon....
Hmm, I've been in love loads of time but most of the times was one way... <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> that started from falling in love with my school teacher when I was 12. <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Awww, i am sorry. Have a hug
*big hugs to Balddog*
It's not all it's cracked up to be you know. Usually there is gut wrenching misery and terror...and that's usually just the first date!!! Nah, sure you will find someone! Don't give up!
I agree with this....
I am in love now...
the last 16 months have flown by and life is kinda fun...
im kinda happy... <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
I wish i could say im truly happy......but that can never be with this person.
Love - beautiful - i think
Unrequited love - heart breaking, stomach churning and sickening
Agree
Only once for me. We've been together now for nearly 16 months - a rare occurance at 15 <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
thats exactly how i feel!
i have been in love and been loved once, u cant b in love if it is returned, its just not possible, love is a 2 way thing.
it hurts to tho <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> i kinda hope i never love again, cos that way u cant get hurt so badly! (pretty sad hey comin from a 15 yr old!) <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Yes you can and i am - i am in love with some one who doesnt love me - dont you dare tell me what i cant feel.
The sad fact is that ive been out with 3 ppl while being in love with this person - yes ive loved one of them but this person ( or my feelings) have put an end to all of my relationships
not so unusual. i fell in love once, and it ended a few days ago. (im 15 too) still feel in love tho, even if she doesn't. right now doesnt feel like it will ever heal
Well i met my first love when i was 15 (i am now old and crusty at 20) and it ended in january 2000 after almost 3 years together. And i can safely say that it is only in the past 6 months that i have been able to get to a place where i am happy, and don't think about him much anymore.
I think the thing with first love is that because it is so new and shiny you tend to hold onto it much longer than if you had experienced it before, thus it seems much harder to get over them. However, you do with time, so there is hope for all you out there mourning failed first relationships....
Personally i think being in love is great, but that i tends to creep up on you, until one day you just kinda realise that this is it!!! Have been in a situation where one of my best mates (male) proclaimed his love for me, and i didn't feel the same way, and to cut a long story short he now doesn't speak to me...
So love has its good points, and also its bad points, cause at the end of the day unless things work out rosy, and you put rings on fingers, someone invariably ends up getting hurt... <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
But now she (my ex) just think that I was obsessed about her.
So I don't really know...Maybe someone can tell me.
oh dear this is complicated i might as well quit now before i complety lose track of what im trying 2 say <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
i think my main point was that at 16 can you really have been in love 3 times?
xx deeby doo xx
i suppose it does depend on the person are some peopel more susceptable to love than others is it the poeple that are looking for it the peopel taht 'fall in it' more easily?
lol which brings me to agree further taht this is a VERY complicated topic :P