overprotective

Former Member

hi, im sorry if this has been posted but i did a search and couldn't find anything.
the problem is my b/f is really over protective, every time i go out its like i'm being investigated! i've tried to talk to him about it but he then has anohter go at me and says if i ever did anything he wuld kill himself which makes me worried that if i do try and break up with him he may do something stupid!

i'm really confused on what to do! thanx for anyhelp.

luv barbie xx <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Former Member

I think this lad is using that as a scare tatic he is obviuosly very insecure about himself and you and feels he has to do this to stop you leaving him, he is emotionally blackmailing you and you shouldnt stand forit, sit down and talk to him tell him if he really cared for you he woukd want you to be happy and this most certanily isnt making you happy i treid to find you some good links but this is all i could come up with <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> http://www.thesite.org/magazine/sex_and_relationships/impossible_boyfriend_questions.html http://www.thesite.org/magazine/sex_and_relationships/emotional_blackmail.html http://www.thesite.org/magazine/sex_and_relationships/emotional_abuse.html
i hope they help you a bit

<IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> xx deeby doo xx <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Former Member

hey, thanx alot! i cheeck them out n c. but what you said really sounded like him! thank you for all the help!!!

love n hugz lea xxx <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Former Member

*hugs* anytime <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

xx deeby doo xx

Former Member

hi, i just thought i'd say that i talked to him n decided to end it as it wasnt going anywhere and i wasnt happy. thanx again!!

love n hugz lea xx <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Former Member

well as long as your happy now tahts teh main thing <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

xx deeby doo xx