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If u ever try n get with a girl long term ur really nice about it they don't seem as interested.
Best case I've seen of this is one of my mates getting dumped by a girl he fancied big time for ages. Her Reason she told him was 'You're to nice'
Hmmm, not sure whether to agree or disagree with your methods. A bit dodgy to purposely go around dumping women so that you can be in a stronger position.
However, there certainly seems to be some truth in what you say. Then again, surely it is the classic situation of "want what you can't have" and that's why the girls react in this way - not because you have dumped them. I think men behave the same way if they get dumped (I know I do) .... but then again, I could be wrong!
You seem like a nice girl so I'm sure you will find a good guy one day that will treat you well!!!!
[This message has been edited by Broken Heart (edited 27-11-2000).]
For god's sake broken heart & spirit, can't you two just get together?????
Or are you already & are just creating a virtual romance?
j9
you girls always moan and bitch about how the guys you always get are complete bastards and how you wish you could meet a nice guy - why then when that nice guy comes along do you always treat him like shit
Oh and we dont all treat the nice guys like shit. If we do its only because we know we can get away with it.
Well you do seem to be getting on well in here!!
and we haven't had a proper site romance yet <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
j9
hhehehehehe <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
yeah we do <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
Life is like a beautiful melody, only the lyrics are messed up
It's true! Bad guys always do win!
Life is like a beautiful melody, only the lyrics are messed up
[This message has been edited by Broken Heart (edited 28-11-2000).]
Ahhhhhhh I seeeee
j9 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Dont know what Im replyin gto really
Life is like a beautiful melody, only the lyrics are messed up
Life is like a beautiful melody, only the lyrics are messed up
he he why not?
Life is like a beautiful melody, only the lyrics are messed up
Because Spirit hasn't noticed that you have to click on the page numbers, I've told her in another thread now, so I expect she'll be reading this soon <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
J9
he he derrrrrr <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart.
What cheeky beggar <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart.
Yeah, I reckon we're forgetting that it's not just blokes who can be 'bad-guys' and that many women act in an equivalent way towards men. For a lot of people it's not because they're bad or good, they just get confused and end up doing something stupid or selfish. People who are sorted and mature (and hence 'good' and maybe even sexy at the same time) by their late teens or early twenties are unusual, so therefore there's a lot of 'bad-guys' out there, plenty of 'bad-girls' and not many 'nice guys'.
I reckon some people are getting the 'nice guy' thing a bit wrong here. Some people are portraying 'nice guys' as boring people. But what's a 'nice guy'? Someone who doesn't punch you or push you over when you have an argument, and doesn't cheat on you, and who you can have a good chat to and then maybe some multiple orgasms <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> ? That doesn't mean they have to be boring.
Thing is, most people get stuff wrong when they're young, have arguments, etc.. Some people who don't are like that simply because they're too timid (or repressed, or similar) to express themselves and live a bit, and so can come across as boring, but nice cos they never hurt you. They mostly change when they grow up a bit though. I think some people who say 'nice guys' are boring have just met some of that type before they started to come out of themselves.
For the record, I reckon all the best sex and best times in general comes from a relationship with lots of trust, with someone you love and fancy. If you're with a 'nice guy' who you're bored with, then he's not the one for you... doesn't mean 'nice guys' are boring.
I've never understood what a 'bad guy' does that is attractive? Are women really so masochistic in general that they like not knowing whether their boyfs out with his mates or screwing his bit on the side, or whether next time they see him there's gonna be some huge argument and they'll get a black eye? I assume by 'bad guy' people don't mean a bloke who sticks his tongue out at you occasionally and calls you a pillock when you make a crap joke...
Well, this topic seems to have taken on a life of it's own!!
I've given up trying to respond to everyone!
Needless to say, I think the "bad" guy wins pants (oops I mena hands) down!
Not much hope for me then! :-(
Nevermind, Karla can give me a prize for constructing the biggest and most popular forum question ever :-) free CD's was it??
You didn't see the party or the TheSite Soap then did you Alan lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
J9
Nice try, Alan london. But whatever happened to asking nicely?? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Hey, I thought I was asking nicely!??
Ok, Karla, can I have some free CD's please ? :-)
I agree. you two R ment 2 B!!!!