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little help here ppl! !

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
heya everyone, ok - i have a problem : i went out with this guy last winter( lets call him 'bob' ) and it was such an amazin relationship & altho it was a bad break up we hav stayed amazin friends up until now and i have came out of a long relationship with another guy afew months ago but recently i realised i never stopped likin 'bob' - HELP! if i tell him i like him it will ruin our friendship but everytime im around him i become awrkward because i like him?! i have avoided men since my last relationship and have forgoten how to flirt?! ( that sounds stupid but im sure some of you out there will understand ) please any tips on how i can get 'bobs' attention please please help! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do you know if bob still likes you at allbecause if he is after someone else you dont want it to end in heartache.
    but seeing as you went out before there must have been some attraction there in the 1st place <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> he obviuosly thought you was a great gal then so whos to say he wont now?
    If there is still a spark between you renkindling relationships can be cool and you may both realise what you have been missing out on

    xx deeby doo xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont just jupm in with your ex again, you have to be 100% sure that, you still love him.

    I spilt up with my Ex last year, and I had other relationships, and still loved my ex with a passion, I use to hid my boyfriend from my ex and if he asked I was still single.

    Then we got together again, he loved me but not how I loved him, we had 2 two weeks together again, then we just worked out, we would only be friends and nothing more.

    Now we got on better than ever, and we best friends, you have to ask ure self is he worth losing as a friend.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Moral of this story: Don't go out with people called Bob.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ) please any tips on how i can get 'bobs' attention please please help!
    Stand around naked with a six pack of beer and watch him come crawling back! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    heya everyone thank you for all your advice ( yeh cheers turtle for your input!! )
    i have broken up from colledge at the moment so i don't know how much i will see of bob over the nxt few weeks and now im confused? ? ? part of me wants to just be mates and just get over him......and in reply to Thefairmellisa ( who was very helpful by the way thank you! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> )if i tell him i like him and he doesnt like me it will make our friendship very arkward....but i think it may be a case of the grass looking greener on the other side...maybe the relationship wasnt as great as i remembered and i just want him because i can't have him anymore?? oh dear i dont know! i will see how the next week or so of holidays go! thanks for all your advice!
    <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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