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Is There Such a Thing as "THE ONE"?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Blatent bl**dy advertising! What a cheek!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; Yes there is and here's the proof - 1
    Its a number and it comes before 2 and just after 0 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    Bad Boy Pete
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    absolutely definitely! everyone has a special person just waiting for them. when you find them you'll know and everybody will be guided to the one by fate. thats what i think anyway!!! lol



    Men are taught to apologise for their weaknesses, women for their strengths
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Angel star:
    absolutely definitely! everyone has a special person just waiting for them. when you find them you'll know and everybody will be guided to the one by fate. thats what i think anyway!!! lol

    But what if your "one" has already been taken by someone else who thought he/she was his/her "one"?

    Several strings of fate and coincidence brought me & my husband together, but why didn't it happen sooner if it was meant to be?

    J9

    Good health is only the slowest way to die.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nice ideal Angel but a tad nieve I think. Chances of true love with the one are few and far between; when it happens it's great but honestly how many people do you know are truly giddy about each other after that initial sex rush thing wears off? Sounds cynical perhaps, but no point waiting around for someone who might never turn out and then finding you've wasted your life.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RachaelHolmes:
    I found my one, at least I thought I had. Then after 2.5 years together we realised we had drifted apart and decided to call it a day.
    So my question is, how do you know when you've found the one?

    Good point, I've found "my one" 7 times so far!!! Still, 7 is my husban'd luck number.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How do you know when it's the one? I don't know, but if you know the person you're with is NOT the one, should you give up on the relationship you're in and go and look?
    My opinion is just to have fun, I'm only young, but am I cheating myself?
    Do you think that you just know when you meet 'that special person' or does it come over time?
    xxxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've found my "one". We met over the internet 6 years ago, and after 3, we decided to meet. We've been together ever since, and we're still totally mad about each other, despeite the "initial sex rush" wearing off.... I just thought I should share this with you all because I now know it is possible for fate to bring two together. It was total coincidence that my boyfriend and I ever met in the first place, it was on a chat programme that neither of us had ever used before. I mean, what are the chances of us using that programme, at exactly that time? It's my own personal belief that it's fate, as nothing else seems to make sense...

    I'm sure that all the cynics out there will have something to say <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif">), but I dont mind, I know he's my "one" whether it was fate or not.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    p.s. I have no idea where that dodgy smily came from. It was just supposed to be :o).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think that yes there is the 'one' although we may never find em or until we get older!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lucy180485:
    i think that yes there is the 'one' although we may never find em or until we get older!!!


    and what happens if your paths never cross?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    And what happens if your "one" finds somebody else who he thinks is the "one" but really isn't?
    And what if your "one" dies? Do you get another "one" or are you destined to be alone forever?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't believe in fate... it mean's you don't control your own life. I don however believe you can find someone who is meant for you, it just has to be someone who has lots and lots of things in common.

    Live life, get drunk, you only live once, so who cares if you can't remember half of it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh grow up!
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