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would i be a bitch?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi my bf stopped the night at my house last night, when he left this morning i told him i would come round his later when he finishes work. but my mate has just rang me and asked if i want to go ikon with her tonight. i dont know what to do, do you think my bf will think im a bitch if i decide to go to ikon? please help me :)

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you had something proper planned with your boyfriend, like a special dinner in etc, then it would be a bit nasty to blow him off for your friend. But it seems like just a casual arrangement so why not call him and ask him if he minds? Tell him you'll go round to his tomorrow or something!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just explain, he might even go with ya... :)

    by the way, is that Ikon as in Ikon and Diva in Soutampton? (student night there on a thursday :p)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: would i be a bitch?
    Originally posted by BritJames
    Ditch the BF

    Go to Ikon

    Shag like a bunny with some randoms

    Make it up

    Live happily ever after

    ... except for when you fancy it again

    to what youve just sed
    1. i dont shag random people
    2. i love my bf
    3. i dont wanna be a bitch

    so therefore i aint just gonna ditch my bf!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Eul Grepus
    just explain, he might even go with ya... :)

    by the way, is that Ikon as in Ikon and Diva in Soutampton? (student night there on a thursday :p)

    yea its the same but its in coventry not in southampton. student night a pound a drink. wicked!! :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No, you'd be a girl who wants to go out. It's SO not the crime of century.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wrong forum.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is Ikon in Coventry?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yea but its in other cities aswell!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Bri-namite
    Wrong forum.
    SoRrY mr smart arse what forum should it be in!! you telling me youve neva posted in the wrong forum!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by vodka babe
    SoRrY mr smart arse what forum should it be in!! you telling me youve neva posted in the wrong forum!!

    Ignore him VB I think it's his time of the month :p;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by NinjaMaster
    Ignore him VB I think it's his time of the month :p;)

    it must be something! ill just leave him to it! :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by vodka babe
    SoRrY mr smart arse what forum should it be in!! you telling me youve neva posted in the wrong forum!!

    Apology accepted.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Bri-namite
    Apology accepted.

    i was being sarcastic!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Bri-namite
    Apology accepted.

    <33
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just thought i would let you all know im goin to ikon. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yay have fun :)

    Was your boyfriend ok with it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by vodka babe
    just thought i would let you all know im goin to ikon. :)

    I can feel a 3 part "based on a true story" ITV drama coming on...
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,287 Skive's The Limit
    Originally posted by Eul Grepus
    is that Ikon as in Ikon and Diva in Soutampton? (student night there on a thursday :p)

    If it's anything like Ikon at Leisure World in Southampton your better of with you Bf.

    I have never understood the people who go to places like Ikon and Diva :no: - they're proper wank!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Eul Grepus
    by the way, is that Ikon as in Ikon and Diva in Soutampton? (student night there on a thursday :p)

    Isn't it Wednesday? It was last year....:chin:

    And Skive I've been there and it's alright :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its thursday here, its not wank its a really good night out here, although it depends on who your with. my bf was fine with it he didnt mind at all i just felt a little bit out of order. im goin to see him tomorrow morning though. :)

    and Bri-namite would you just shut up!!
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,287 Skive's The Limit
    Originally posted by Faith
    Isn't it Wednesday? It was last year....:chin:

    And Skive I've been there and it's alright :p

    Always been thursday's I think (it was when I was at college) ...and no it's not alright - Diva, Ikon, Jaks ...they're all jank! :p

    Infact for clubbing and pubbing, Southampton's jank all over. You're better off having a laugh with the old people in Bournemouth! :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by vodka babe
    and Bri-namite would you just shut up!!

    hehehehe

    *waits anxiously for Brians response * :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why didnt you just take your boyfriend?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Skive
    You're better off having a laugh with the old people in Bournemouth! :D
    My brother lives there, and says that as it's a good sized city with a Uni that it's not as boring or dull as everybody imagines it to be. It's not all old people shuffling around in tartan slippers.

    Anyway, back to the original post, even though I'm way too late I may as well chip in my opinion. Yes, I'd say that if you said to your boyfriend that you would go and see him, then you'd be a bitch. But it's worth a call first to see if he's still up for spending an evening with you. Explain that your friend has asked you out, but you don't want to dissapoint him and will be around, unless he's to tired after a day at work. Then if he is too tired, or fancied a night in on his own, he can just say he's tired, and you can go out. If not, go and see him like you said you would.
    Oh, and you should give him the option of coming too. Don't forget that.
    As I said, a bit late with the advice, but that's my opinion at least.

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hope your boyf got his mistress round for a good balls deep session whilst you were off being a bitch.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LMAO!!!!
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,287 Skive's The Limit
    Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
    My brother lives there, and says that as it's a good sized city with a Uni that it's not as boring or dull as everybody imagines it to be. It's not all old people shuffling around in tartan slippers.

    It was a joke. I love Bournemouth's night life. Proper clubs like the Opera House and The Showbar rather than shit like Ikno and Diva. ;)
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