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Confidence ?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi all

I broke up from my Ex over two years ago and since then i havent been in a realtionship -not even dating anyone which has suited me to the ground until now - i would really like to get a decent relationship again as i cant be bothered with the one night stand thing. I have got myself to a stage where i dont want to approach the women - even though i really like them and they have given one or two encouraging signals - i dont know why but i am like "well if you wont come and speak to me then dont bother !"
- I am trying to discover why i feel like this ! I am not an arrogant bloke at all but it sounds really bad i think ! I did think that it might be because i am scared of being rejected - but i am not sure ?

Anyway - Has anyone else been though something like this ? Anyone got any pointers to help build my confidence back up so i can approach the ladies?

Thoughts please from the ladies !?
Thankyou !

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just be yourself my freind and women will appreciate it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I used to have a problem approaching young men who I liked, but personally, I think it's all attitude.
    The best way to get yourself a girl is to get to know her first, personally, I like a guy who's caring and mature. Like you say, there probably are girls who like you, but if you want to get to know them better, you have to give the correct signals in return.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I honestly believe it's all to do with practise. Just try being yourself and the more you try the more confidence you'll get!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for that - i think i'll just have to bite the bullet and take a few chances - i wont like being told where to get off - but if i dont try - i'll never get anywhere. I just have to remember not to take it to heart and move on <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    cheers !!
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