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How to say I luv you?
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Well I have been meeting a girl quite a lot in the past couple of weeks and we got on so amazingly well... I decided to tell her about my feelings as I can't keep it to myself anymore. I know she was hurt before in her last relationship. Today I asked her something like, 'so are u opening yourself up for a new relationship', she hestiated a bit and told me, 'yea, i think so', she sounded a bit unsure. So what does that mean? What should I do to let her know about my feeling? I am the type of guy who hates to be rejected, so I don't know what to say. <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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Relationship-wise, all the signs look very promising - she said she thought she was ready for a new relationship. It sounds like she's just being cautious because of her last break up. See how things go the next time you see her and good luck. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
I knew what was going to happen. 2pm now, I haven't heard from her still, i knew she won't talk to me again, in fact i knew i wasn't really her type of boyfriend... she told me about all the good times with her ex, i knew i am nothing compared to her ex, who am i supposed to say i luv her, i regret all this, now i am left alone, i dont know what to do!!!!
well i think she got what i mean anyway, i still remember last nite when we said goodbye i looked at her blanked for half a minute wanted to say something but couldn't push out a word...
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Dont put urself down either sayin u have nuthin compared to her ex... arent all people equal and after all isnt her ex her EX!
EXACTLY! if all was all that great she'd still be with him! You obviously care and i reckon that makes you a genuinely nice guy, and there arent many of them around! Dont always jump to the worst conclusions, there are loadsa reasons she might not have text back or whatever yet.
The balls in her court now. Like someone else said, there could be a million reasons why she hasn't texted you back.
Anyway, if she isn't interested, maybe she's got no taste! <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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Don't put yourself down! There is no reason why you can't be just as good a boyfriend (if not better) than her last one. He isn't perfect, and neither is she, or they'd still be going out! Be yourself and don't let him make you feel bad about yourself.