lost in my relationship

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for the last month or so i have been really lost in my relationship.i don't know how to talk to him about it. when i look at other people they seem so happy and i just wanna be happy in the relationship too.Other people like me and i find it really hard to tell them that i am no longer single. would this be easier if i was happy???
help me out somebody.please?

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I'm not really sure what to say but if you're not happy in the relationship then maybe you shouldn't be in it.

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uve got to find a way to talk to him about it.

there's no point in waiting "for the right moment", cos then it only comes out all wrong (assuming u actually ever find the right moment).

set urself a time limit - a day/a week etc that u have to talk to him about it, set him down, and the hardest part will be starting it. so show ur nervous - he's ur bf after all.

"listen, i'm not sure how to say this" at which point he'll start to think the worst - that ur about to dump him.

"but i think we need to take a step back from our relationship and see where it's going. sometimes, i think to myself that maybe this isn't meant to be, but..."

and then the rest, as they say, is easy.

or if it's not, just ask for more advice.

good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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That's really good advice Turtle, I'm impressed <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Remember that you don't have to be in the relationship and if you're feeling uncomfortable you can always get out of it. Good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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thanks turtle for your advice on that one.i agree with what you say.so, i'm going to see him 2mora nite to talk to him. thank you. nic

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thanks.your advice really helped me too heaven scent.maybe if i just talk to him it will be ok if it aint going to well then thats the time to ditch him.thankx.

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thanks wildchild for your advice.i am happy that i have told my problem to you guys.you all have helped me alot.thanks.

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tell us how it goes <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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ok, good, that's my one piece of advice for the month. now back to the normal silliness <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

hope it all goes well nicola <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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thanks guys.i'll let you know how it goes!!!b mondi tho'.thanks- nic

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Originally posted by Turtle:
ok, good, that's my one piece of advice for the month.

ur so hormonal! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

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lol, t'is the truth/

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