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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi,iv been with my girlfriend for 3 weeks now,thing is i really fancy her mate and her mate fancys me,but i dunno what to do

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I guess the real question is, do you still fancy your girlfriend?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont fancy my girlfriend i never have,it was one of them things i got forced into,i been trying to finish it for ages but she just wont have it,but if i dump her for her mate,everyone is gonna hate me
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Metal:
    <STRONG>...iv been with my girlfriend for 3 weeks now...

    ...i been trying to finish it for ages...</STRONG>

    How old are you?

    Look, you went out with this girl, and I very much doubt you have the imprints of shotgun barrels on you to show you were 'forced into it'. Now you can ditch her and try to go with her mate after the 'ages' of 3 weeks, but you'll look shallow and immature in doing so.

    What you have to decide is whether you like this other girl enough to risk looking like a shallow kid unable to commit to anything.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why did you bother going out with the girl in the 1st place??? <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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