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The Perfect Kiss

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey, I've been friends with a girl for a long time, and she's become very special to me and the time for the first kiss might come up soon. I really want it to be great, something to remember and tell our children about in years to come <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

I've kissed girls before so i know the usual routine and I don't need to hear "start with her neck" because for the first kiss that just doesn't happen. So any advice from guys and gals completely welcome.

Oh and also this could be the definitive guide like Whowhere started in the sex forum <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by The Ghost Of Kurt Cobain:
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    Oh and also this could be the definitive guide like Whowhere started in the sex forum <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0"></STRONG>


    It could be, but it never will be. No kiss is ever the same. Different people have different ideas, and different likes/dislikes about how a kiss should be.
    However I think we can all agree a perfect first kiss would be a soft one, that is long and passionate. With only LIGHT tongue movement.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WhoWhere is right... no kiss is ever the same. To make it romantic and memorable though, do make sure that you are in a place where it will be hard for something to interrupt you. Also remember to keep eye contact with her beforehand so that she knows it's coming. Maybe touch her face as well right before?
    But in all honesty if the feelings are right between the two of you it will be a memorable moment that you'll look back on no matter what happens.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There are only general tips I can give on this one.

    Firstly, stay calm. Go along with the feeling of desire, not the feelings of nervousness.

    Nervous signs like damp hands or licking your lips (leading to an over-soggy smooch) are ones to beware of. By all means moisten your lips before a kiss, but surreptitiosly wipe them on a tissue (or sleeve if necessary) before the actual kiss. Some like wet kisses, but many do not.

    Have some mints or gum. Mints are better, because spitting out your gum before the snog isn't exactly romantic. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0"> If you are going out, you may eat something that doesn't leave your breath too fresh, so having mints handy is a great tip.

    One thing you don't think of until the actual moment usually is where to put your hands when you kiss.

    Well here's my best tip, and one that has always been... er ... popular shall we say with my partners:

    Place your hand gently against her neck, with your thumb lightly resting over her jaw on her cheek, near her ear. It is a very gentle thing, it holds back long hair (in fact brushing her hair back when placing your hand here is a good move) and it shows a desire to hold her, yet doesn't make her feel either grabbed or trapped.

    You can lightly stroke her cheek with your thumb too, which many women have said feels very warm and loving.

    I almost never use the tongue on the very first kiss, unless she instigates it. Rather I make the first kiss very gentle, soft and loving. If she likes that, there'll be plenty of hotter kisses coming right up.

    Hope that's of some help.

    Most of all though, enjoy that moment for all its worth. savour it. The first kiss is magical somehow, and sets the tone for much of the rest of the night.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey, thanks you guys I'm feeling a lot better now. This was very important to me because she's everything to me. Thanks again.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by The Ghost Of Kurt Cobain:
    <STRONG>I really want it to be great, something to remember and tell our children about in years to come <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

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    you have big ambitions!

    no honest when ther moment feels rite stare into her eyes (thats lovely ) and move closer to kiss her if she returns the kiss then your in it will just go from there good luck!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think thats so nice you're making such an effort with it and that you want to make it really special. she's a lucky girl. <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A kiss is something so magical....It can lead to wonderful things if it is done right..Just take it easy and don't push to hard. When the right moment comes you will definitely know..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Black Knights's advice is good for ghiving a good technical kiss. But youll find how romantic a kiss is depends on who you are with, and where you are. If its with someone you love and who loves you back, then a kiss is a wonderful thing even if you arent that technically gifted (but not a complete moron lmao).

    Just let the thing come naturally, if you love this girl then youll just instinctively know how to hold heer and touch her. Just dont use too much tongue <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    Good luck, she really is a lucky gal!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ...and if you do something that feels a bit dodgy just laugh (a little bit not your head off) and say sorry and go in for it again!!!!! that way neithetr of you will feel awkward.

    Good Luck SweetiePops
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh, and just dont swallow her whole or anything!!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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