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Is it neva ment 2 be??

I suck at relationships! I mean the longest 4 me has been....2 weeks! I just don't like them...i always feel tied and almost as if i'm married 2 the guy. I once told my friend that i prefered the one nite things... does that make me a slut??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wicked*wicca:
    I suck at relationships! I mean the longest 4 me has been....2 weeks! I just don't like them...i always feel tied and almost as if i'm married 2 the guy.


    I'm not being funny, but why do you go out with guys if you feel tied down?

    Maybe you just need to meet the right guy. Have your previous b/fs been really possesive?
    I once told my friend that i prefered the one nite things...does that make me a slut??

    Definitly not. Well not unless you do it every night at least twice <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Why don't you close your eyes and re-invent me?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd give anything to get back with my ex, you're lucky, stick with the decent blokes! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    One of Heaven's lil Angels <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angel.gif[/img]

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah i just told him all i wanted 2 do was have fun...im 14 and he was 19 and he wanted a serious relationship..lol he got kinda pissed....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Relationships and me don't work either. I've only ever had one boyfriend and that was hardly what you could call a relationship, a month long and we only met four times (we live about 3 miles from each other). But I was feeling tied down and it was giving me stress for some reason and suddenly I just couldn't take it any more so I said we should split up.

    I want to love and be loved back so much, but when it comes down to it I know I can't handle it. The only reason I went out with him was because everyone said "Give it a go or you'll never know if it could have worked". But I had doubts all the way through, and after we split it was like a great weight had been lifted off me.

    And even though I've met a couple of guys who liked me as a person, who I could talk to about anything and really trust, I just can't handle a relationship even though I want to. I don't know why, maybe like Bunnykins says it's just that I can't handle a committed relationship yet, but come on I'm 17, why do I find it so difficult?

    And as for one night things, well I can handle going to a party and getting off with someone (the idea anyway, not that it's ever happened), but then it's the worries about further expectations next time we meet that I don't like the thought of. Not like going further, just the kind of "we got off, do you want to go out?" sort of stuff. I don't know.

    So don't worry wicked*wicca, I can't help you out but at least you're not alone. And you're young, give it time, like jeffrey says maybe it's just a case of finding the right guy who will appreciate you for who you are and won't pressure you into being more committed than you want.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    there are times when i think my gf wants to give up, paranoia i guess
    but i soon know im wrong when we speak to each other <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wildchild, im EXACTLY like that and im 18!! I duno wats with me, i get on great with ladz just cant handle relationships! Reckon il have my first one when im... ooh 25?!! LOL!! As for one nite things making u a slut... nah.., or if they do IM ONE TOO!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Lxxx

    Useful trick -> if your prospective beloved's eyes dilate when you first speak it means they fancy you. Eyes also dilate when u take cocaine, but at least ull know there interested or a crack head!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    THNX!! hehe...so i'm not the only 1 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; And don't worry bout ur thing!!

    loadsa luv
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