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g/f's boy mates
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hi every1
right my g/f and me have been goin together for a few months now, and we are quite serious about each other.
the problem is that she hangs about with these lads thats he knows, and to be honest i dont really like them. i know that they have been feelin her up and she just tells them to fuck off and hits them (in a hlaf jokin way i think), like boy and girl mates do ? I also know that they both want out with her, and i am a very insecure person so its even harder. I dont want to speak to them ever, truth be told i dont really want her to see them but i cant choose her mates for her, and that wouldnt be fair on her.
I have talked to her about this and she just says that its okay thats just the way they are etc, and she wants me to go out with them but I dont want to know them, they are not my kinda mates.
its only ever me and my g/f together, never with her mates, and in a perfect world thats how it would be. but i just get so paranoid, and its not that i dont trust her. I just worry about her and them lads because of what they do.
right my g/f and me have been goin together for a few months now, and we are quite serious about each other.
the problem is that she hangs about with these lads thats he knows, and to be honest i dont really like them. i know that they have been feelin her up and she just tells them to fuck off and hits them (in a hlaf jokin way i think), like boy and girl mates do ? I also know that they both want out with her, and i am a very insecure person so its even harder. I dont want to speak to them ever, truth be told i dont really want her to see them but i cant choose her mates for her, and that wouldnt be fair on her.
I have talked to her about this and she just says that its okay thats just the way they are etc, and she wants me to go out with them but I dont want to know them, they are not my kinda mates.
its only ever me and my g/f together, never with her mates, and in a perfect world thats how it would be. but i just get so paranoid, and its not that i dont trust her. I just worry about her and them lads because of what they do.
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Useful trick -> if your prospective beloved's eyes dilate when you first speak it means they fancy you. Eyes also dilate when u take cocaine, but at least ull know there interested or a crack head!
S&S
I know girls who value mate more than relationships. Just don't feel that yu have to hang round all the time when she's with them, you may not trust them but you do trust her. The last thing you need id for her to feel that your suspicious of her.
You've no reason to be insecure thou, think about it... She's with you rather than them... Your abviously a nicer and more attractive person than any of them are <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
Keep that in mind,
All the best,
Spade
u just have to trust ya g/f and/or get the ex killed <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> it doesnt bother me she has mates that are ex's, but the fact they try it on annoys me and they wouldnt do anything like that with me about. if i ask them about it they start kissin arse and stuff, so they aint worth it, give them some kinda warning* (a not so friendly smack in the face) and they'll fuck off <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
*in ur mind anyway, dont do it for real cuz ur gf wudnt appreciate it and it shows ur a prat, but just imagine it in ur head <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
call me satan <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/angryfire.gif">
takl to her about it seriously, don't let her trivialise it... just make sure you know that you can trust her not to do anything(sexually) with them...