I have many numbers to ring

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This girl at school said that she thought i was "quite sexy" during a lesson in front of anyone who was listening! She's a real babe, was she taking the mick or was she being serious i'm too shy to do anything about at the time. Now it's after the exams i thought i'd ring her and ask if we could do something together. I've got 9 numbers, if she lives locally <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">, if not there are a few others that are close to where i live!

What should i say when i get through to her?Should i ask to take her to see a movie? She's funny and i think she'd be fun to be around but i don't think i'm good looking enough for her so she might of been joking about it!

Can anyone help me out here please?

| Do you think she was being serious in class?

| What should ask to do with her if i ring her up?

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if u get to her just act cool and ask her how she felt she did in the exams. then casually ask her wots shes upto next week and suggest meeting up and doing something. u could even use the excuse of celebrating the end of the exams. anyways good luck and i hope it works out for you <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by shazza:
if u get to her just act cool and ask her how she felt she did in the exams. then casually ask her wots shes upto next week and suggest meeting up and doing something. u could even use the excuse of celebrating the end of the exams. anyways good luck and i hope it works out for you <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Cool i think i could do that, thanx for the advice

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One vital bit, Make sure you tell her who it is ringing. Nothing worse than half way through going, Who are you??? heart breaking.

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Originally posted by Kat:
One vital bit, Make sure you tell her who it is ringing. Nothing worse than half way through going, Who are you??? heart breaking.

hehehe true true!

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the slogan for the california lottery vecta is "you can't win if you don't play." the only way to find out if she was taking the mick is to ask her out.

ring her and just be straight forward as you said you were going to be. and don't psych yourself out by putting doubts in your head about ur looks before you ask her out.

as for what to do.. the movies, a walk in the park or a museum always work well for things to do on a first day. maybe an amusement park?

good luck dude.

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Originally posted by Calvin:
the slogan for the california lottery vecta is "you can't win if you don't play." the only way to find out if she was taking the mick is to ask her out.

ring her and just be straight forward as you said you were going to be. and don't psych yourself out by putting doubts in your head about ur looks before you ask her out.

as for what to do.. the movies, a walk in the park or a museum always work well for things to do on a first day. maybe an amusement park?

good luck dude.

thanx for an alternative aproach Calvin, i'm not sure which option to take now though, both sound good <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

Also when i haven't tried any of the numbers yet becuase i need to know the code that you put in first (before a call) to withold your number, does anyone know that?

And anyone got any other thoughts on what i could say/do?

Thanx everyone for your help <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Girl-From-Mars

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Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
141 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

you know all the stalker secrets don't you gfm? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

Girl-From-Mars

Originally posted by Calvin:
you know all the stalker secrets don't you gfm? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

lol well of cou... errrr i mean, whatever could you be thinking of calvin? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
lol well of cou... errrr i mean, whatever could you be thinking of calvin? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

hehe thanx guys!

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I'm scared to ring, stupid...but she was probably just making fun of me!?

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how would we know dude? u were the only one that saw or heard what she did.

all we can do tell you is to ask so you know for sure. sitting there wondering or asking us won't get you answer. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

find ur courage, and make that call dude. that's the only way you'll know for sure.

[This message has been edited by Calvin (edited 29-06-2001).]

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Originally posted by Vecta:
I'm scared to ring, stupid...but she was probably just making fun of me!?

The longer you sit and try to get up enough corage to do it, the more doubts you start to have and the less likely you are to do it. So stop trying to analysis whether she might or might not like you, pick up the phone and find out!

It wont be half as scary as you've been imagining! Apart from that, Shazza's advice was good, and dont bother todo it anonimously, then she can always dial 1471 is she wants to speak to you in furture. Have confidence in yourself!
S&S

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192.com or the BT Cd-Rom works even better .... it adds the surprise element <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by sugar&spice:

The longer you sit and try to get up enough corage to do it, the more doubts you start to have and the less likely you are to do it. So stop trying to analysis whether she might or might not like you, pick up the phone and find out!

It wont be half as scary as you've been imagining! Apart from that, Shazza's advice was good, and dont bother todo it anonimously, then she can always dial 1471 is she wants to speak to you in furture. Have confidence in yourself!
S&S

Thanx agian. I might get a chance tomorrow, i'll let you all know when something happens.

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Originally posted by Powerslave:
192.com or the BT Cd-Rom works even better .... it adds the surprise element <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

Thanx for them linx my friend, they look like i might be able to findher phone number!