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me and jo

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
me and jo are one of a kind we feel the same feeling think the same stuff. we like the same jokes food and films. you could say thhat we are the same person but jos jo and im me they is soe differences but noone can find a 100%match can they?

jo is my soul mate i feel her pain and she feels mine. iv been with jo for 16 months of my life but it feels like my whole life i cant even remember life without her.

the problem is thatwe have been brought up different with different values and stuff and in a way i think that it is starting to show. iv never been close to anyone before never had anyone to talk to and when i have spoken to people they have basicly said shut up and forget about it. but jo has'nt she has had someone always there for her someone to help and now i want to b that person but it sounds daft but i dont no how to. and when jo trys 2 help me i kinda just throw it bk in her face and she thinks i do it cos im a twat but im not its just overwelming.

all want to do is re-pay her back with this love and support she gives me and right now she needs it.

i dont know why i have posted this nobody can help me its just something iv got to do myself. but if anyone can help i would be greatful.

thanx jamie

i love life with jo she makes it worth living.

Comments

  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    ive got no advice for anyone right now, i cant even sort my own life out. but post very nearly made me cry.

    (((((((((((((((jamie n jo))))))))))))))))))

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dude. this one is simple.. tell her stuff like this, not us.

    i think she'd like to hear it from you and you'd be surprised how far a simple admission like this will go.

    sometimes people just want to hear what you think, feel what you feel, and i think jo is missing that from you sometimes jamie.

    if you can come so far as to make this admission and post it, then you should have no problem telling her how you feel about her when she needs to hear it.

    and just talk to her. it doesn't have to be anything serious. most of the time, asking her how her day was and listening to her shows her plenty. be her friend and her soulmate.

    just remember dude, no matter how much you think someone knows you love them, it's really nice to hear it from you every once in a while. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    good luck dude. this was really fantastic to read. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    (((((((jamie)))))))) oh gosh i have got butterflies in my tum now!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; i know u find it difficult to show ur emotions jamie and in the past u aint had anyone there, but things change and u have got some1 here who is willing to help and support u.

    i dont want u 2 be my councellor just simple things like calvin said would me the whole world to me, just like when im talkin to u pay attention and show u r listening.

    neways thanx again jam,

    luv u all on here!!! byeeeeeeeeeeeeee
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aww cute.

    communication is the key to any relationship <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    There's a girl in my mirror
    I wonder who she is
    Sometimes I think I know her
    Sometimes I really wish I did
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As usual, Calvin dispenses good advice.

    All we need now is the shellhead with something facetious.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *does a crap*

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    *does a crap*


    and that works on so many levels... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    knew you wouldn't let me down

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Gotta admit, thats v. v. cute!!! Ahhh
    But i'm steaming jealous now!!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aye, jo seems like a really nice, i used to feel alot like that about my girlfriend... till one night i got really drunk.
    i talked, alot, and she saw my true feelings even more than ive ever told her
    and we've been so much closer since, i cant remember what exactly i said, but it was likely along the lines of how much i cared.

    im not suggesting u get drunk
    but try to talk, it helps

    Youre Dying Every Day Of Your Life
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    tis cute aint it!!! dont be jelous, ull find ur hunk soon, y dont u take a trip 2 the bank kat <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanx all esp jo how is my rock the only one who keeps my life in one pice
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanx all esp jo how is my rock the only one who keeps my life in one pice

    i love life with jo she makes it worth living.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well he's nice..i'll admit but the bank geezer...mmmm not sure, i'll c what i can do when i get back. Actually i see interest from someone i used to like.....but he's got a g/f....but hes majorly league flirting with me........urrrghhhhhhhhh. Anyway off on hols tomorrow.
    Loads of love to you lot for two weeks.
    Kate
    Jo and jamie have a good hols coz i doubt i'll get to speak to you before.
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