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New relationship tips wanted :)

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Im due to meet my internet g/f on 6th July and to be perfectly honest, I am so fucking scared <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">. I love her to bits and its been 10 months now before we have met, and I am just scared of messing up, its been a long time since ive been in a relationship and I am scared of messing up so badly. I need some help here, any sort of advice would do <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey cherry_pop

    as a sympathizer who has gone through the internet meet up thing, my humble suggestions are:

    - have no expectations going in. if you go in there with high expectations, you leave urself open to disappointment, because this person could be quite different than what you expect. so appreciate who she is when you meet her, and not what you think she should be.

    -she's just as afraid of this as you are. so take it slow. if she sees ur okay with this, she'll be okay with this too.

    -don't expect it to all come at once. all the passion and longing you had will come to fruition once you guys are actually confortable with one and other.

    -have fun. you are about to meet someone special it sounds like, so savior every moment, because ur gonna talk about it for ages.

    that's it. good luck with this, i hope it works out for you cherry_pop. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why don't you tell her your feelings then at least she'll understand when you make a prat out of yourself, plus no doubt she'll say the same!!
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