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its a case of the ex

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
theres this girl who i used go out with and we split up a while back, she wants us to get back together but i dunno what to do, here are the facts
;shes a real bitch about everythin and everybody exept for me
;she doesnt like any of my mates and subsiquently they now hate her
;every time we go out it ends in tears
; the last three boyf shes had , she said she was pregnant to everyone and then it just went away misteriously


so what do you think i should do ? give it another try or lay it to rest? its your call thanks <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The way you put it it sounds like you dont particularly like her. So what is the point in going out with someone who you dont like?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you do still like her then I reckon you should make sure that you have got what you say are facts completely right. If she has acted as you say she may have had reasons for it in some cases. Do you know her really well? Know much about her past? <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive known her for about7 years, i know her quite well, i know that she really likes me and i feel kinda guilty that i dont like her as much as she likes me , i feel like i have to like her because she likes me, ya know?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi, i dont think you should go out with her because she doesnt sound like a very nice person! Also if she bitches about everyone the chances are she bitches about you behind your back!
    I'd forget about her and find sum1 better!
    Luv Lucy xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nothing like a self answering question. If ever in need of advice two tactics come to hand.

    1. Think to yourself, what would someone who care (parents, best friend etc) say? Exclude neurotics and bigots

    2. If they knew nothing of the situation what facts do I think they should know?

    Chances are in answering these, you wont discover their opinion but you damn sure as will yours.

    Example, someone I knew did something very out of order. I blinded myself by it. Asked myself what my mother would have to say and found myself defending this person. Suddenly realised, mother hadnt said anything and already I was on the defensive. Question answered, bitch out the door. By the way, she stole my bank card in the night and tried to withdraw two hundred quid, failed and put it back. I only found out when I tried to use it to get dinner at work.
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