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Blowjobs! without or without condoms???

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
When i 1st gave my boyfriend a blowjob it was ok then the next time i reached so much! i find it easier to give him 1 with flavoured condoms! Now i cant stop giving him blowjobs! Sometimes i wonder if it makes a difference to him if use them or not!

Does it feel different boys? Good or bad different???

Sauce
xxx <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've never given a guy a blowjob with a condom on - whats the use? Although it would be enjoyable both ways for him - im sure its much better without one on.

    Well thats my opinion - what would I know - I'm just a girl. lol <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    To blokes a blow job is a blow job, they love it no matter wot, if girls swallow its amazing, but its not rude if they don't want to, to spit isn't nice but using a flavoured condom is an excellent idea, girls- u should ask if you can use flavoured condoms if u want to, don't be scared.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not all guys necessarily share that opinion.

    Part of the excitment of a good blowjob is the inevitable cumshot. Now, i certainly wouldnt demand that girl swallow if she didnt want to (although i agree spitting is insulting), but most blowjobs lack the right amount of friction and intensity that guys need to shoot so a condom on top of that would IMO make the experience rather lackluster.

    why not just have him shoot on your breasts or tummy if you dont like swallowing. The visual aspect is retained that way for his and (hopefully)your excitement andyou can just wipe it up after or take a shower together and carry on in there.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Firstly 'sexy Cj' you said there is no need to use a condom while giving a blowjob- thats not strictly true, hiv and many more STD's can be transmitted through oral sex if you have any open cuts or even if your gums sometimes bleed [gum disease]the STD could make its way into your bloodstream,

    Personally I hate the idea , only had a BJ it a couple of times with a condom and thankfully my longterm GF hates the idea as well and seems entuasiastic about blowjobs,

    Sauce if your more comfortable then fair enough but I think your missing out on alot of the fun parts <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I ahve it it with an with out - it definatly feels a lot better with out one though <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">, you can feel her tounge/warmth of mouth more it feels much more closer/intmate.
    (and if he has washed, it shouldnt taste bad) <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sauce:
    <STRONG>When i 1st gave my boyfriend a blowjob it was ok then the next time i reached so much! i find it easier to give him 1 with flavoured condoms! Now i cant stop giving him blowjobs! Sometimes i wonder if it makes a difference to him if use them or not!

    Does it feel different boys? Good or bad different???

    Sauce
    xxx <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>
    i only want blowjobs with out a condom.we are not talking babies here.we are talking pure pleasure and a blow job with a condom on is not fun.you miss the girls lips and tongue and the feel of skin on your cock.so leave the condom off,unless you think the bloke is diseased.condoms are for pussy only,in my opinion.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by smirnhoff chick:
    <STRONG>I've never given a guy a blowjob with a condom on - whats the use? Although it would be enjoyable both ways for him - im sure its much better without one on.

    Well thats my opinion - what would I know - I'm just a girl. lol <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>
    girl,you are completely right.leave the condom,off and you will be giving your guy a better time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sexy-cj:
    <STRONG>wat a waste of money buying condoms to give bjs when u dont need too!!wudnt u be offended if you were him....i wud be!!
    i absolutely hate the taste but i want to pleasure him and if thats wat i gota do then ill do it!!!any one agree??or am i just wierd!! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>
    you are so right!imagine having a plastic bag in your mouth and your poor guy feels the plastic rubbing instead of your mouth and tongue.do it without anything on and you are doing it right!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A condom defeats the object!
    She should swallow and you should give her back at least as much in return. oral sex on a girl has about ten times more chance of bringing her to orgasm. Unless any girls out there think differently....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i feel that good bj,requires just a girl and her mouth,tongue and lips.nothing should be on my cock.you want to feel the lips and tongue and mouth and the wetness too.that is part of getting excited.the condom is a hindrance.then when you shoot your load,on her face,breasts,stomach or ass or down her throat it will be very strong and powerful.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't understand people on here. when people ask sex questions they always get the big lecture that they should always should use condoms to protect from std's but then when it comes to bj's people say things like i wouldn't have a bj if i had to use a condom n whats the point in wasting money on buying condoms. well you waste the money on condoms for bj's for the same reason you would waste it on buying condoms for sex. you can still catch std's from giving bj's you know.
    everyone's just totally contradicting themselves
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if you have an STD you shouldn't be doing anything sexual without the other person knowing

    get tests if you're bothered!

    i think condom for sex is more to do with pregnancy and, despite me not being homophobic, it's a fact that homosexuals, especially males, are more likely to have an STD
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sexy little thing is absolutely right that you should use a condom for any situation where you don't know the entire sexual history of your partner. That does include oral sex. For men, you too should really use protection, and oral dams are suitable for cunnilingus.

    But to answer the original question, yes there is a huge difference for me between condom and no condom in terms of sensation. When using a condom I prefer penetrative sex to oral.

    I'd prefer a hand job without a condom to a blowjob with one every time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    don't like using condoms the taste is terrible... prefer it without much less trouble. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> not bothered if he wants to then ok, but i ain't fussed. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Can i just say a big thank you to 'sexgod hotrod' and 'sexy little thing'

    THANX

    sauce
    xxx <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    all i hav 2 say in the matter is natural is betta if u were meant 2 use a condom im sure he wud hav bin born wiv 1. i love the natural feelin wen its in my mouth but wen we tried usin a condom i had an awful rubber taste in my mouth. all i need 2 say is make sure hes had a gud wash that way you both enjoy it a hell of a lot! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey yeah well i agree its safer wityh condoms and the ladies may enjoy it more with the flavoured but i must say it feels a hell of a lot beta without condoms but maybe u can compromise with ur men, maybe alternate with and without condoms evry night or something!! and about swallowing, personally i aint bothered cos by the time u have to make that decision, im in heaven but still it looks beta if u swallow it, its alot cleaner, the cumshot thing is ok cos its nice to have the picture in your head but we don't wana have to worry bout it dripping anywhere afterwards! but no spitting, after all, its so un-lady-like! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Xauriwe7419Xauriwe7419 Posts: 1 Just got here
    Definitely without a condom for sure. My ex girlfriend could not blow me due to my girth so we made do with her mainly sucking my head which was decent. At this point she was submissive (at her own will of course) to blow me whenever possible. This involved without a condom as I gave her a facial every time. Whether it be a blowjob or a titfuck you will know the difference. Only time I had a blowjob with a condom was with my ex who blowed me until I pulled off the condom to tit fuck.
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    JustVJustV Community Manager Posts: 5,348 Part of The Furniture
    Welcome to the community, @Xauriwe7419.

    This thread is over 15 years old ( :eek2: ) , so I've closed it. Feel free to start a new thread if you like, but generally we don't resurrect threads that are older than a couple of months.

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