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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey everyone, happy new year.

Don't really know where to start. I'm just feeling really lonely at the moment so I thought I'd come here to try and cheer myself up.

My relationship is going through a really testing time at the moment and I just feel so depressed!! It doesn't help that my boyfriend lives 140 miles away. Some of our members of our families don't agree with us being together and at the moment I just feel like we're fighting a losing battle.

Some of my mates think I should leave him but I love him so much and know that he loves me too, thats just not possible. Don't really know why I'm telling you all this, I suppose I just need to get it off my chest.

I just miss him so much, I can't think of anything other than him!

Anyone got any ideas how I can cheer myself up??


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    originally by Gabrielle's mouse mat
    Who needs men . . . when there's chocolate!

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    seriously though, try having a nice evening on your own or with some friends and pamper yourself . . . watch old movies, give each other massages . . . just a girls' night in

    That always cheers me up anyway.

    Either that or a night out, and you don't get them easily over here <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

    hope that hepls


    P.S. btw, if you ever need a natter and there's noone about, my messenger addy is nonpareil_entity@hotmail.com

    [ 07-01-2002: Message edited by: Gabrielle ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hello there, well all is not lost <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0"> you care for each other and that's the main thing. <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">

    I don't know about distances, but at least he's in the same country <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> You hear about people bridging gaps of thousands of miles so why not a hundred or so <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

    When you say family do you mean parents or other relations?

    How are your friends badgering you? I mean, not being funny, my true mates stick by me through thick and thin <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">

    Chill, you're only young stress and depression should be waiting for you later on in life <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0"> at the moment you should be enjoying life. I can understand he means alot to you and by all means stick to him, but try and enjoy other things as well, a preoccupation with him can spoil things for you.

    Feel good? hmmmm try chocolate <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> well it's full of the feel good chemical serotonin <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

    Happy new year btw hope yours started off better than mine!
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