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if this doesnt prove most blokes have one thing on their mind i dont know wat does!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok my b/f (now my ex) asked me if we split up would i still sleep with him (i didnt while we were in the relationship so i dont know wat made he thnk i wud if we broke up) i told him no because i wud only have sex with him if he loved me and if he loved me he wudnt have split up with me. anyway that nite he broke up with me (we never got back 2gether) i honestly dont thnk it was anything 2 do with wat we had been talking about that day.
a few days later cos 4 while we stayed close we were walking in2 town after skool and he asked me how did i feel about still doing "stuff" cos he really wanted his first time 2 b with me, he still didnt seem 2 understand that not loving me but expecting sex part! oh well ive showed him im getting 2gether with his best mate! his worst nitemare and the best thing is im not even doing it out if spite, i really do like him! lolanyway wat im trying 2 say is he had a one track mind and most blokes my age do! wen do they grow up!? (im 15)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Men only stop thinking about sex at 1 point in their life, when they die.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is why some people think I'm gay! Girls say I'm just about the only guy they've ever talked to who isn't nice to them for sex only. Some men are complete cocks though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm more concerned about passing my driving test, then bring on the girls <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seems the majority of chaps only live life with one reason- spread their juices throughout the lady race! <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">

    You'll usually find that most guys who actually respect the lady for who she is and not for what she brings to the bedroom seems to recieve the 'gay' tag... therefore sex is the way of life and will be the main subject at the guys discussion table

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    [ 06-01-2002: Message edited by: Kirkland ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No, boys may think about it all the time. Us men have more pressing matters to deal with, right then where's my dinner? <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    blokes have 3 things on their minds:

    1)how to unclasp a bra with 1 hand

    2)if their team will win the premiership

    3) food, mainly sweet sweeeeeeet donuts *leans back and dribles onto the keyboard creating a short circuit*

    aaaaaaagh!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is why some people think I'm gay!

    Just because your nice to girls without sleeping with them doesn't mean anything like that, ok, gay/bi people are sometimes classed as better communicators because they:

    a) Their brain is more wired towards the female side or is 50/50 split and therefore they have the female communication thing

    b) They aren't afraid of being seen as 'weak' or 'non-masculine' and therefore don't try and remain 'hard' all the time.

    Girls say I'm just about the only guy they've ever talked to who isn't nice to them for sex only.

    I get the same thing, but its such a good skill to have and I don't mind being nice to people and not sleeping with them <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by go_away:
    <STRONG>blokes have 3 things on their minds:

    2)if their team will win the premiership

    3) food, mainly sweet sweeeeeeet donuts *leans back and dribles onto the keyboard creating a short circuit*

    aaaaaaagh!

    [/IMG]</STRONG>

    Win the premiership! I'm a Derby fan, staying up would be nice. As for donuts, Yuk! they are fowl, sickly things. Give me pickled onions anytime!

    [ 06-01-2002: Message edited by: Dan the Man ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1)how to unclasp a bra with 1 hand

    Let the girls do it, far easier.. or do it with your teeth <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

    2)if their team will win the premiership

    I hate football, infact I don't even like sport really... guess I'm not your average male...

    3) food, mainly sweet sweeeeeeet donuts *leans back and dribles onto the keyboard creating a short circuit*

    Donuts.. lol, nope I prefer salads and stuff (seriously), salads rule... I'm healthy, strictly class A's <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    salads? hate football? pah! hehehe
    give me Soylent Green anyday mmmmmmm people <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by go_away:
    <STRONG> Soylent Green anyday mmmmmmm people <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"></STRONG>

    I've seen that film so i know what your on about <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well for me i think about:

    (in this order!)

    1. My health
    2. freinds and family's health
    3. Football
    4. Booze
    5. Sex
    6. College
    7. Anything else

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well for me i think about:

    (in this order!)

    1. My health
    2. freinds and family's health
    3. Football
    4. Booze
    5. Sex
    6. College
    7. Anything else

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't JUST think about sex! In order of importance:

    Food
    Volleyball
    Mountaineering
    Food
    Alcohol
    Sex
    Kayaking
    Climbing
    Mountain Biking
    Food
    Sex
    Skiing

    Ok, maybe food and sex feature quite heavily <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> but I have yet to go out with a girl for just sex, and I get on with lots of girls really well without "getting in the sack"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Deary deary me, read my post about 'what pisses me off' in the anything goes forum.

    The bloke you went out with is just one type of bloke, not all blokes want sex.

    Im a bloke, and sure i want sex, but i dont go out looking for girls with my shag-dar, seeing what chances i have of being able to shag them within a week. I go for girls who are nice, good looking, loving, and fun to be with, if sex happens, it happens, if it dont, it dont.

    The bloke you went out with probably just wanted a shag cos its 'macho' to have lots of sex. It aint, sure its fun, but thats about it really, fun. I doubt you'll find a bloke who doesnt want sex, because they are the type i bet you dont want, like a lot of girls. You probably like the rough and ready blokes, who are a bit naughty, nice guys dont want sex as badly as the naughty guys, but most girls dont want a nice guy.

    It depends on how you look at it, i could look at one of my girl mates and say she sleeps with all the utter rubbish out there, while another i could say is more a virgin than pure virgin oil. All depends on what blokes u look at.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Morningstar:
    <STRONG>This is why some people think I'm gay! Girls say I'm just about the only guy they've ever talked to who isn't nice to them for sex only. Some men are complete cocks though.</STRONG>


    hehe . . . I never thought you wer gay Matt, tho that is coz I thought if you were you'd get together with Fraz tbh. <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">

    and I GAVE you a good quote damn you!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    All us blokes just carnt help yourselfs, even when i hugged my g.friends friends on new years eve I had to stop myself feeling there arse's and I didnt even fancie them that much???

    So give us blokes a break, it comes natural to most of us.

    Oh by the way my order is

    1. Coventry City Football Club
    2. SEX
    3. Booze
    4. Mates
    5. Going out (clubbin)
    6. Food
    7. G.Friend
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just to add something, why do you think a blokes dick is out in front huh? hee hee
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That is spot on Kirkland. Im that sort (not really bothad bout sex, in the grand scheme of things it aint that important) but I have to put up this little act when I`m around m8s as a couple of years ago someone spread rumours that I was gay and I constantly have to fend them off by being ure typical macho sex-obsessed bloke in public when I`m not really.
    Anyway, until these idiots stop tagging men who dont think of sex as the only good reason to be in a relationship as gay, then most men, whether they really think it or not, will just talk about it all the time to avoid the trouble.
    Its a crappy circle but can get occasionally interesting.
    Besides, most women are disgusted by the thought of sleeping with me so if i was obsessed with sex id have a very crappy life indeed.
    Originally posted by Kirkland:
    <STRONG>Seems the majority of chaps only live life with one reason- spread their juices throughout the lady race! <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">

    You'll usually find that most guys who actually respect the lady for who she is and not for what she brings to the bedroom seems to recieve the 'gay' tag... therefore sex is the way of life and will be the main subject at the guys discussion table

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">

    [ 06-01-2002: Message edited by: Kirkland ]</STRONG>
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Morningstar:
    <STRONG>This is why some people think I'm gay! Girls say I'm just about the only guy they've ever talked to who isn't nice to them for sex only. Some men are complete cocks though.</STRONG>

    yeah they are. I'm really not bothered about sex. I'd rather the whole couple activities thing - just the dating and all that
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    blonde batman the same thing happened to me. some guy i was going out with said he wanted to keep all the physical stuff but split up. pathetic really. he laid on the i want my first time to be with you shit but i ignored it and got myself a proper boyfriend, refusing to continue any form of relationship with him, which shocked him a bit because he really thought i'd be up for the sexual action only thing he had in mind. shows how stupid blokes can be. its only now that i realise how much he used me but hes paying the price now seeing as he's getting no action (from any girl) and is begging me to go back out with him saying it will be a 'proper relationship.' hmm i actually feel quite sorry for the poor bloke. nevermind eh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Morningstar:
    <STRONG>This is why some people think I'm gay! Girls say I'm just about the only guy they've ever talked to who isn't nice to them for sex only. Some men are complete cocks though.</STRONG>

    That makes at least two of us then Mate.

    I find female company more fun than male any day. Most fellas I know are full of 5h1t for some reason...

    CD <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

    PS, having read the other posts (oops, sorry), that makes at least 5 of us... Or more... I can't count. <IMG alt="image" SRC="redface.gif" border="0">

    [ 11-01-2002: Message edited by: CodeDragon ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RubySoho:
    <STRONG>blonde batman the same thing happened to me. some guy i was going out with said he wanted to keep all the physical stuff but split up. pathetic really. he laid on the i want my first time to be with you shit but i ignored it and got myself a proper boyfriend, refusing to continue any form of relationship with him, which shocked him a bit because he really thought i'd be up for the sexual action only thing he had in mind. shows how stupid blokes can be. its only now that i realise how much he used me but hes paying the price now seeing as he's getting no action (from any girl) and is begging me to go back out with him saying it will be a 'proper relationship.' hmm i actually feel quite sorry for the poor bloke. nevermind eh.</STRONG>

    well kinda sounds now that i as using my ex b/f cos really he didnt get any sexualy action out of the relationship he mostly just gave it 2 me! i didnt even realise this until after we broke up tho! <IMG alt="image" SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> and my ex now has a new g/f after we broke up bout a week later we got back 2gether then he dumped me again the nxt day 4 his new g/f. he'll get wat ever he wants off her cos shes the type whos 2 scared of losing him 2 say no! sad really but thats wat she gets 4 stealing my b/f! <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you read through this post, then you'll see a variety of male and female views of what men think about.

    Not all men are purely interested in sex. There are a lot of people out there who actually care for people, as opposed to girls, or boys.

    There are indeed some men who think about nothing but. You may have met them, you may have experience of a relationship with them.

    That is not the whole picture, I'm sorry to say. Hopefully, you have enough faith in the gender to admit that we're certainly not all the same. Look, for example, at the Definitive Sad and Lonely post. (I know its old, but it exemplifies what I mean...)

    There are lots of guys who care about girls as people. They just never get the chance to prove it, it would seem.

    I hope it works out however you want it to. I don't think that it proves for "most blokes", just that one. Don't tar us all with the same brush, eh?
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