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All loved up with nowhere to go!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi guys, I wonder if anyone can help me, I've got a slight problem with my man, that being just it, he isn't really my man! Sorry am I losing you, you see my mans engaged, but obviously not too me, I wouldn't sy I'm in love with him, but we do get on well, and he looks after me. I've known him for two years now, and we've been togther for a while, he's said he's leaving his fiance, not for me, but because they don't get on. (He didn't actually say that to me, it's difficult to explain really, he needs to find somewhere to live first) Anyway the whole point of this was to kind of sort my head out if I wrote things down,and that hasn't worked, I'm just more confused!! Anyone got any ideas, do you think I should stick around or what??

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmmmmmm.

    Well if he's not leaving her for u, is he stil gonna b with u afterwards?
    I know this is a bit harsh, but he mite just have bin using u while he was with this girl.

    But i guess only he knows what he wants to do and who he wants to b wiv so y don't u ask him? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    If the sky that we look upon
    should tumble and fall
    or the mountains should crumble in the sea
    I won't cry, I won't cry,
    No, I won't shed a tear
    Just as long as you stand
    Stand by me
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks Drifter, I've been reading through the boards, and you give some good advice!!

    Looks like it's time for a grilling session with my guy!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by PussyCat:
    Thanks Drifter, I've been reading through the boards, and you give some good advice!!

    Hey thanks! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Thats the first time sum1s told me i giv good advice! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    *chuffed*

    If the sky that we look upon
    should tumble and fall
    or the mountains should crumble in the sea
    I won't cry, I won't cry,
    No, I won't shed a tear
    Just as long as you stand
    Stand by me
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well this is probably gonna sound harsh but i don't think its fair on u or her that u should be seeing this man as u i think really like him and would probably like 2 have him 2 ur self and not have 2 share him. but have u thought about how this woman would feel? i think u should ask him what he feels 4 u and tell him he has got to tell his fiance the truth.
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