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Please, I need help!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I'm sorry sweetie but there is one word that describes this lad: ARSE!

Don't fall in love with the idea of being in love.

xxxx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    right is the first person u have had sex with?

    umm similar thing happened to me,but i was sleeping with a guy, he had no girlfriend though but it was all in secret everyone else thought we had broken up about 3 months b4.

    tell him to lose all the other girlfriends or u'll leave and stop doin watever ur doin with him.

    if he gets angry or makes up some shitty thing (bit vague but it happens) then just walk off and leave it.

    hope it turns out ok

    xxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi,

    Why was it a secret when he wasnt seeing anyone?

    I was a twat in school and slept with girl after girl there but made them promise not to tell there friends cus some of them wern't popular and they didn't really mean alot to me, BUT I NEVER FORCED THEM.

    He sounds like me when I was younger, forget about him, if he really likes you he will get rid of the rest of the girls and make your relationship OPEN to everyone. If he just keeps trying it on when round ur frinds dont give in just brush him of and find some one decent.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it was secret to my mates. he went to my school and we didnt really say a lot to eachother then, acted like we didnt really get along. my parents knew we were seeing eachother coz he came round my house.

    but was secret coz he sed he wanted it that way. i thought it was a stupid mean thign to do coz i thought he was ashamed of me, but he later told me it was coz noone liked him and he didnt want ppl to hate me coz i was seeing him (some ppl in my yr were very very shallow like that)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Forget him. Forget him NOW !
    Once a player, ALWAYS a player.
    I had a best mate who was the same... always messin about with girls...playin them.
    I took my own advice and fell out with him.
    I am now glad that i did, as he would have broken my heart.
    I say, forget about him, no matter how "nice" he seems. He is obviously not a "nice" person.
    TheShyGirlBeth xxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by TheShyGirlBeth:
    <STRONG>Forget him. Forget him NOW !
    Once a player, ALWAYS a player.
    I had a best mate who was the same... always messin about with girls...playin them.
    I took my own advice and fell out with him.
    I am now glad that i did, as he would have broken my heart.
    I say, forget about him, no matter how "nice" he seems. He is obviously not a "nice" person.
    TheShyGirlBeth xxx</STRONG>

    Yep, you need to meet nice guys... like me! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">

    (Please, to all regulars- DON'T WARN HER!!!)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kirk:
    (Please, to all regulars- DON'T WARN HER!!!)

    Sorry it's my civic duty to! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">

    On the other hand there's me <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Marmite:
    <STRONG>On the other hand there's me <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"></STRONG>

    You only wish you were as bad as me... and thats frightening. You are the perviest though, but I'm working on it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This relationship is heading you down a one way street to heartbreak.

    The good thing is that you know he is only using you and you were happy with that.

    Now that your feelings are getting deeper the circumstances have changed. It is not his fault that your feelings have changed so you can't blame him.

    You need to nip this in the bud now. It will hurt but not half as much as it will if you just carry on regardless.

    Be strong and be sensible and above all keep your reputation intact. Once your relationship with someone has ended, any loyalties to trusted personal information normally dissapears.

    Good luck
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Tc - work it out.:
    <STRONG>Hi ppl, thanx 4 all your replys, the thing is, he does not want ppl 2 know coz the people we hang with fancy me and they would get jelouse of him and me.
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">
    ~xxx~</STRONG>


    Time to put the boot on the other foot If others fancy you try one of the I'm sure one of them would treat you better and it would be salt in a wound for him (dumped for a mate of his and all)
    <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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