SHE IS AMAZING, I CANT GET HER OUT MY MIND

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I just had this heart to heart with the girl named jess. i told her every thing what i felt. i said that i was really hurt her saying that she didnt knw if she liked me or not, she was leading me on, but alot of truths came out in the conversation. she likes me, i like her, but she didnt want a relationship at the mo, i didnt understand, i have never cared this much about a girl beofre. i dont understand that if she says she does like me, but doesnt want a relationship, i wouldnt want to lose her. there is sooooo much sexual tension between us its a joke. i cant speak about this crap anymore, it just pisses me off!!!

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if you want her as much as you say then you'll give her time to be ready for a relationship. trying to force her into it is the quickest way to lose her - believe me.

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Originally posted by whizzygirl:
if you want her as much as you say then you'll give her time to be ready for a relationship. trying to force her into it is the quickest way to lose her - believe me.

i was gonna say exactly the same - just hang on in there and u'l get the girl <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

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i totally agree with the above...

she likes you...but she may not want a relationship just yet for her own reasons and if u really do like her - u should respect her decisions.

in the mean time, enjoy the friendship and build on it, a strong friendship is always the best starting point to a good relationship.

good things can only come in time...

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Hey Chris,everytime I see one of yr topics its always about Jess.I thought you was with her anyway.Did that so called friend really put a strain on you two.This Jess sounds really special and you sound sweet.

Anyway,so the feelings are mutual between the two of you.I'd say wait-the ball is in her court and she is worth waiting for.
Good luck.Dont be pissed off.She likes you but just give her time and be a great friend but dont be too forward-it may put her off.at the mo it seems like she needs a friend-be the friend and nothing else.she knows u like her so just wait.

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Im going out with her, YES!!!!!!! i am sooooo happy, it all happened at midnight last night. she basically told me that she didnt want to go out with me, then she talked to this bloke on the phone apparently for about 2hours about our whole situation, and he mader her give me a chance, i said i wanted his number so i could txt him saying thank u. but im great now, and im seeig her 2night, well hope eberything goes well, i think it will last.

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Originally posted by chrishot4u:
Im going out with her, YES!!!!!!! i am sooooo happy, it all happened at midnight last night. she basically told me that she didnt want to go out with me, then she talked to this bloke on the phone apparently for about 2hours about our whole situation, and he mader her give me a chance, i said i wanted his number so i could txt him saying thank u. but im great now, and im seeig her 2night, well hope eberything goes well, i think it will last.

{{{{{{{{{chris}}}}}}}} that is so amazingly amazing <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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congratulations!! you're lucky...

Me and my current girlfriend were "frustrated friends" for about 11 months before we decided that we were actually going out. It was an enjoyable period, and we got to spend lots of time getting to know each other and stuff. It's probably why we're so intimate now!