What should I Do

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I am confused about this situation.Ive been taliking to this boy for about two years over the phone. so when i finally see him hes not at all what i expected. But i loved him for his pesonality and his sense of humor. every one would make fun of me cause of how he looked. it didnt seem to bother me alot but he began to act funny towards me. so i stopped caring a little then alot. i told him we would be better as friends to catch up on my feelings for him but he didnt like it cause it hurt his feelings. so he just stopped calling. i was the one who did the calling cause i felt bad. he started smoking, stealing, lieing and he even went to jail. i was the first one he called when he got out. i still have feelings for him. more than i thought. cause it hurts me even more not hearing from him or talking late at night like we used to do.we never had sex cause he said he would wait for whenever im ready. i told him i dont believe in having sex until after marriage. and he agreed with me. i still love him alot and would do anything in the world to get back with him but hes leaving me in july to go to the navy. What should I do? Help me Please.

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annonymous

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i think u should tell this lad how u feel about him, when i first got with my bf he had planned everything about going in the army. but after a while he told me that he loved me 2 much go in the army.

i was thrilled! when i first got with him it was like i could'nt get close 2 him cos he was leaving me. but now we have been together 4 1 year. if u tell this lad how u feel he may cahnge his mind aboit going in the navy.
good luck luv jo xxx

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i don't understand y he began to act funny towards u if u weren't bothered about how he looked.

he obviously liked u a lot if he ended up in prison. perhaps if u answer my Q i mite b able to help more.

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Thanks for trying to help me out but I really wanted to know if I should get back with him or not?

Originally posted by Drifter:
i don't understand y he began to act funny towards u if u weren't bothered about how he looked.

he obviously liked u a lot if he ended up in prison. perhaps if u answer my Q i mite b able to help more.

welcome to thesite <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

[This message has been edited by Crazyself (edited 22-02-2001).]

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i definitely think u shud get bak 2gether wiv him, it sounds lik u really love him and he loves u 2, because it obviously had a seriously bad effect on him.

Tell him u stil love him rite away b4 he leaves for the navy. U neva know, if he thinks it's true love then he mite stay <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; he mite just be goin to get away from all the pain n everyfink y'know?

I don't know u but it sounds like u wud make a really gud couple! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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